Does anyone else have trouble cumming with a condom?

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...I know it is common for uncut guys to use them, it just seems like it would be a strange sensation to have your foreskin held back. I've always been cut, so it has been a curiosity for me.

It's not held back...at least mine's not. The foreskin slides back and forth during intercourse, almost like it does without a condom...except there's an extra layer of latex on top. Think of two pairs of socks, being turned inside out, then reversing...moving together. (Maybe it just takes extra good 3-D visualization skills!)

That's why it's so important to choose a well-fitting condom, especially if you're uncut. And a loose foreskin, IMHO. And I pre-cum a lot, in addition to the interior Astroglide I mentioned before.
 

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yeah, i've experienced this a lot, especially recently. it happened a lot less when i switched from Magnums to Magnum XLs, but even then it's proven problematic about half the time.

i was thinking about trying to switch to Magnum Thins. it'd be a little snugger, but the trade off in sensitivity might be worth it. anyone have experience with that?
 

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Maybe it's partially the mindset (i.e., if you set yourself up to think that you won't like them . . . you probably won't like them). I went through a period when I wasvery down on condoms, but once I just accepted that I wouldn't be having sex without them, it became (almost) a natural part of sex. For me, nothing beats the first 30 seconds or so of initial bare penetration (into a vagina, that is), but after that, in all honesty, it feels pretty much the same, covered and uncovered, except that it took me a little longer to come with a condom, which resulted in a more powerful orgasm. In fact, it took me a little bit of practice after I had my vasectomy to be able to hold back from coming and have orgasms that were as intense as the ones that I had with condoms.

Everyone's different, I guess.

Another thing, as others have suggested, is to try a different brand of condoms. I orginally used Trojans, because that was just the one that had the most brand awareness for me. But, they felt a little too tight and too thick for me (again, that was just my personal opinion). I used Lifestyles for a long time and liked them better, before ultimately settling on Durex Ultrathins, which felt like they fit the best in terms of tightness and thickness, which I used for years. Maybe you can have some fun practicing with that.

Hang in there, especially if not using a condom means you won't be having sex at all (plus, they can protect you in all sorts of ways and potentially even save your life).
 

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I naturally take longer to cum, and with a condom it's only worse.

So in stead of trying to cum I'm just trying to make it pleasurable for her and take advantage of it.

She might cum several times before I do, I feel great and so does she but for quickies it might be a problem.
 

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I don't have any trouble staying hard with a condom but cuming takes awhile. I'm cut and very thick with a big mushroom head. A std. size condom squeezes and numbs the head making orgasm difficult. The Magnum Ecstasys are good.
They have more head room. The best ones I've found are Coripa. They come in many sizes both length and circumference. They tend to be a bit pricey though
 

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i think i have bated so much since my teen years, that i've desensitized my dick. is that possible? And now cannot cum with a condom. i wonder how common that is?

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