strangely I have very little precum when I'm hard. But if I sit and stroke myself for like 20-30 minutes, and then get soft, I'm leaky like a faucet. Also, I have like 300% more precum when I'm with my wife. She has this way of touching me on my perineum, balls, and areas around both that make the precum start to flow. Also, I can feel it coming out, like its straight up semen, i can feel it traveling from far in all the way up my shaft, its crazy feeling! Getting head I can feel it then too, and it doesn't stop flowing. But I have to be with her for serious precum, alone, not much or any at all.
I got a Lingam massage from her last year and it lasted a little over 45 minutes. Was hard the whole time, never even got like 90% hard, was 100% the whole time. The precum just flowed and flowed, it came out non stop, we were both beside ourselves! Why can't that happen when I'm just playing by myself??? One can dream