Does anyone here dated a quiet guy?

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Hi! Been in this site for months now, and I was wondering if people gets attracted to guys like me who is quiet or a man with few words. Never been in a real relationship so I was wondering what it feels like...
 
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if you are naturally shy or 'quiet' it can be incredibly difficult to get noticed purely because you're not the extrovert 'putting it out there' and i note you are from PH and my experience of PH guys is that they are fairly conservative anyway.

there will be another person out there who is either like you or likes those traits in you but it may take a while to find that other person. you need to find strategies that work for you to find that guy either in person or on apps etc.

But don't ever consider yourself less than because who you are is who you are and you shouldn't try to be different to that to please anyone ever!!

someone will like you for exactly who you are believe it and be positive about it and yourself.

in PH there is gay cupid as a site which is perhaps a little less aggressive than grindr and other apps - also join some of the PH facebook groups that meet your needs and be honest on it as to who you are and the type of person you're looking for.

Good luck
 

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Hi! Been in this site for months now, and I was wondering if people gets attracted to guys like me who is quiet or a man with few words. Never been in a real relationship so I was wondering what it feels like...
Not knocking you young man, that is who you are. I will say though, I think that can be frustrating in any kind of relationship, especially a real dating relationship. Quiet won't reveal anything about you and doesn't give anyone a chance to see who you are. Just your speaking alone can reveal so much about who you are, your personality and your interests. I have known a guy similar for years. He is so cute but gives me the impression he simply is not socially comfortable. When we talk he contributes very little to a conversation. I'm sure there is a reason for that, maybe due to how he grew up. But, think about it deep; maybe seek counsel if you think the issue may be that serious, because I fear it will be a downer for you if you don't. My advice to you is totally constructive.

Also sexually, when a guy never makes a sound is such a downer. I have met a couple of guys that for whatever reason never makes a sound during sex, even when they cum. I always thought that maybe when they were growing up they could have conditioned themselves to stay quiet during sex play and masturbation for extreme fear of being heard or getting caught by their parents.

Best of luck to you my friend.
 
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