it's probably not what yall were hoping for in terms of an update but;
after the tumblr ban he was on insta for a bit, before deleting it. then after some time he restarted a new insta under a similar handle and was back to posting pics of him in jocks/etc. then he shifted to posting just regular photos and saving the more explicit content to dms and friends only stories (and started sharing more of his real life).
so for some context: his name is actually benton and he was in a relationship (i can't remember if he was with both or just Thomas atm) with a couple, Thomas and Trey, after working for Trey for a short time.
2020 was an awful year for them: Thomas got sick with Covid and suffered from 13 strokes because of it, the 13th of which resulted in brain hemorrhaging and there was a super small chance he could actually make it. After being in the hospital for 3 months, he was finally able to leave but still struggled with movement/needed to be cared for. Then just three weeks after getting out, Thomas's partner of 23 years died from cancer.
So for the past couple years Thomas has been working on physical rehab & he's been traveling around the US a bit with Benton in a camper they bought. They're still together and still post sometimes on instagram, (nothing like what he used to post on his alts/brett_james accounts), but just small updates and photos of their travels and such.
their insta is @getting.to.good and they just relaunched their blog! ->
Getting To Good (and by just relaunched, i mean it literally, thomas just posted about it like an hour ago as i'm writing this lmao)
back when they were still mainly traveling in their camper they used to be twoguysandacamper but with the name change they also deleted the old blog i think?