Does anyone like androgynous guys?

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  1. tiagra

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    I am a male who has somewhat of a girly figure or I should say an androgynous body. It always embarrassed me when I was younger, but as I got older I found a lot of girls and guys were attracted to my body. How does everyone feel about this? Is anyone attracted to guys who have somewhat of an androgynous or feminine look, but otherwise acts and speaks like a male?
     
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    When I was in retail it sometimes made it difficult. One is afraid of insulting the customer when you don't initially know whether you're talking to a Sir or a Ma'am.
     
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    Kinda like guys that look like guys and girls that are either not fat but feminine or quite athletic-thin but certainly not manly.

    I would argue im not 50% Gay 50% staright because im not half of anything, i have two whole sexualities lol
     
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    I've been in love with David Bowie for years, the original androgynous guy. And my ex was long, lean, and had tats. But if you looked past that, his body was very feminine. And HOT!!!
     
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    Hmmm
     
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    I prefer to know what I'm looking at ... but, no big deal ... accepting of differences
     
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    I've seen people out in public and have sometimes wondered what sex they were. It kind of throws me for a loop when I see a female body with a masculine voice, or a male body with a feminine voice. Sometimes they are people who are undergoing a sex change, but others like you just happen to be that way. As long as you're comfortable with it and not self conscious that's all that matters, because I'm sure you're aware that people may be staring and wondering.
     
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    I like pretty guys. I have a bachelor of psychology. In school they taught us that an androgynous mind is a healthy mind because you won't be stuck on thinking a sewing machine is something you cannot touch or a tire change is something you cannot do.

    I would say that looking like a girl and being androgynous are different things.
     
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    Thx Italian978 and dxjnorto for the thoughtful quotes. That helps
     
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    I was told I looked 'pretty' in my teens, and that along with a cock a bit larger than average used to attract the attentions of older men which wasn't always so welcome.
     
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    I would say Zac Efron's face is very androgynous, but his body is all male. The opposite could be true or both or neither. We're all different. There's something like 30,000 species of beetles. Get my drift?
     

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    I hear that "leave britney alone" guy is single...you don't get more androgynous than him.:tongue:
     
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    That's not androgynous. That's silly and weepy. Androgynous means a mix of what are conventionally considered male and female traits. Andro=male Gyno=female. It's not more complicated than that.
     
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    I agree dxjnorto. That is silly. My body is a mix of both. It's very weird, but others seem to be attracted to it. at least some that is.
     
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    Your body is beautiful.
     
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    I don't care what some people think, but Mr Efron is a HOT HOT man! Let's lineup and tag-team him...who's in?:biggrin1:
     
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    Excellent point! I had the same issue come up frequenly when I worked in the Men's Sweater department at B. Altman's back in the 80's. I guess I am confuzzled by intentional androgeny rather than those people like the OP who were just born that way.


    same here


    Agreed


    As long as you are happy with you and getting some, isn't that all that matters? :wink:
     
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    Lol, I should claim androgyny; I still can figure out whether I am more female than male in appearance. ^_^;
     
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    Thanks for the compliment Kink
     
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