Does being a bigger man make your cock feel/ look smaller by proportion.

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I'm 6'2 220 lbs and I think if I were a smaller man that my dick would look much bigger. I know I have a large penis, but it just doesn't look like it when I look in the mirror or see myself in a photo. Anyone else feel the same way?
 

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You aren't going to feel big. You're going to feel "normal". It's all you've been. It's all you've held/seen if you're straight.

If you want to really see how much bigger you are than average, look for and buy an average sized dildo or something.

Your initial reaction is not going to be "I'm huge" but rather "That's small". But it's not. And if you can honestly take your mindset off of self-center and realize that size is the vast majority of men's normal, you'll really see and feel just how massive your dick is.

Edit: As for the proportion thing. Yes it does affect how it looks but you aren't anywhere near affected since your dick is so huge. To look small in film you'd probably have to be 7ft tall.

Because of how morbidly obese I am, my dick doesn't look anywhere near big in pics unless cropped.
 
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I'm 6'2 220 lbs and I think if I were a smaller man that my dick would look much bigger. I know I have a large penis, but it just doesn't look like it when I look in the mirror or see myself in a photo. Anyone else feel the same way?

I agree, You are huge but I also believe you. I see myself the same way. While not as big as you I still see small in the mirror
 

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I feel the same way when I look straight down but feel larger when I look in the mirror. And of course it would look bigger if you were shorter. Now imagine you are 6'2 250, that's where I'm at. I feel if I lost weight my cock would look larger, and throwing being shorter in on top of that I'd think I'd look like I gained a few extra inches. But I wouldn't trade my physical attributes to appear larger. Maybe just the weight part but I still get the, wow, reactions sometimes.

P.S. You're huge man and in great shape.
 
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Actually pretty simple answer: in relation objects always look smaller/bigger if you compare them to other objects of different sizes. So yes, the same penis will look bigger on a 5'8" guy than on a 6'5" guy. But that doesn't actually change the size. So there's not really a problem.
 
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No doubt it affects perception—it’s a simple optical law. You would have to isolate your dick to really indicate it’s size.

I’m 6’”3 225lbs, so I get the concern!
 
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I’d also add in that it’s not just height. I’m not overly tall, but I am rather broad and thick-/big-framed, and I think the “backdrop” (if you will) impacts the perception of size.

(I’ve actually stated as much with one of my pics. So I’m happy to hear that other men have the same concern/wonderment.)
 

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I've always thought the same thing, I'm similar to the poster above I just have a naturally wide frame and huge thighs so I think it affects the perception for sure.
Also if I do ever send a pic to someone, when I show up the reaction is almost always that it looks bigger in person so yeah Im convinced it's a thing
 
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I'm 6'2", 265lbs, 8x6. As a young man I was 155lbs. Yes, my penis looked enormous then. Today it's actually a bit thicker but it doesn't look impressively all. But....it doesn't need to appear impressive. It *feels* impressive to the person who matters.

It's been discussed ad nauseum here but note that porn actors tend to be extremely small-framed guys.
 

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Yep. Totally agree with the main and several subsequent points.

There are many dudes here and on Reddit who are not my size and get way way more response. (And sure, part of that is posting frequency & currency, but...) Between my wider frame and the different proportion of being really thick, I don't feel very eye catching. Even trying to offer something in pix to lend a practical sense of scale hasn't done much to move the needle.
 

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I'm 6'2 220 lbs and I think if I were a smaller man that my dick would look much bigger. I know I have a large penis, but it just doesn't look like it when I look in the mirror or see myself in a photo. Anyone else feel the same way?
Wow how could you not see that you have a really big cock? It’s huge man- and gorgeous. Though I do understand that sometimes it’s hard to see your own cock as big. I often feel that way about mine. Sometimes I think it looks big and others just average as I’m s big guy too.