Does being bored make me more attractive?

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I see so many posts titled something like, "I'm so bored, cam with me now."

Am I the only one who thinks that's a little insulting? To me, it implies that they think I'm only worthwhile to alleviate their boredom, or that it's my duty to accomodate them.

If I were into camming, I would be much more likely to respond to "I'm horny, let's cam" than I would to "I'm bored. Entertain me."
 

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I have to agree...it isn't the most inviting statement...I couldn't imagine using that in the club..."I am bored, do you wanna dance with me?" I think I would be standing around alone a lot!
 

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I remember an infomercial in the late 80's.... and one thing that struck me was one statement they made in it "If you're bored, you're BORING." Seems to be true.

I don't think boring is attractive. Although with the celebrity worship culture we live in, think paris hilton, it seems more and more people think it's attractive.
 

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To me the two greatest sins are: 1) being bored (if you're so bored you don't deserve the gift of life), and 2) being a boor (if you are so boorish, do the rest of us a favor and remove yourself from our presence).

Of course, there are those who think enjoying sex is sinful, among other things, despite their GREAT FAITH in their imaginary savior or god. In which case, I find they qualify as boors.

You're a boor. Go play with yourself in private -- and don't scare the children or animals!
 

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If you're bored there must be a reason for that and it's usually you.

In the chat room sometimes, we'll yaking away about some BS subject and some lurker will chime in with a *yawn* or "boring!". I am like, WTF? If you don't like the show here, change the channel, for christsakes. I mean... am I here for your entertainment? If so then pay me. Or bugger off.
 

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I remember an infomercial in the late 80's.... and one thing that struck me was one statement they made in it "If you're bored, you're BORING." Seems to be true.

I don't think boring is attractive. Although with the celebrity worship culture we live in, think paris hilton, it seems more and more people think it's attractive.
Honestly, I cannot remember the last time I was bored. I find my entertainment, for myself, wherever I am.

I think some of the responders on the thread should have a closer look at my original post!:biggrin1:

I agree with the side issues that people are only bored if they want to be, and that people who whine about being bored certainly aren't scoring points with me.

I'm just really puzzled why the opening line, "I'm bored" would attract anyone interested in camming. I usually just skip over those threads, don't even bother to reply, because the first thought that goes through my head is, "alright, you're bored, you won't be much fun to interact with."
 

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saying "im bored , lets cam" is just that persons way of making them feel more secure in a sense that they are asking people to cam with them, they want it to seem like they usaully dont do it, and they are just soooooo bored that they will do it just so they arnt bored.. when in reality, they want it either way
 

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It can mean the person is bored and wants entertaining.

It can mean the person only wants the sexual experience. They don't want to know where you live, that you have 2 dogs and 3 cats, or anything whatsoever about you. They just want to get off.
 
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Hey guys, Bored here. Anybody here want to watch me jack off on cam?
 

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saying "im bored , lets cam" is just that persons way of making them feel more secure in a sense that they are asking people to cam with them, they want it to seem like they usaully dont do it, and they are just soooooo bored that they will do it just so they arnt bored.. when in reality, they want it either way
I figured it was some trendy ice-breaker, but still, it comes across to me as "I can't find anything better right now, so I'll settle for you, please entertain me."