does enjoying big cocks makes me bi / gay?

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norseman: OH CRAP, stand back everyone, I'm going to agree with Tiger.

Gee-wise, I'm sorry that you're feeling conflicted, and I'm sorry that you're troubled by the need to find a "one size fits all" label for your sexuality, but if I were looking for a label for you based on your posting, I'd have to say you're at least "bi". Attraction to dicks, big, medium, or small is not a characteristic in the "straight" column.

You can't, however, be gay because you've got miserable taste in art.
(Sorry guys, that stereotype was too good to resist...)

Norse

 

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I'll politely pass on playing the role of an art critic....I won't comment on the hentai exhibits.

The guilt association we men apply to being curious of other mens' sizes and the admiration of large penises is what I would like us (as a gender) to "get over".

I won't debate with anyone here (ridiculous to even try) whether it makes a man gay, bi, crooked, or straight if he happens to like noticing another man's rigging. I happen to think it does NOT necessarily make a man gay or bi. A desire to "interact" (sexually) with another man would be a better determining factor regarding sexual orientation I would think.

We're competitive by nature as men. We want to be big and we appreciate seeing "big sizes" in other men--often (subconciously) wishing we could be the larger size we are observing. THAT'S what's going on in our noggins, fellas....not necessarily wanting to "make love" with the man himself whom we're oggling.

WHY then, can't we get this ...(ahem)-----"straight"
and stop punishing ourselves and each other over this (often) very common denominator amongst us men?

 

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norseman: Bender,
I agree with you to a point, but this original poster said that he was "in love with big hard dicks" and in a follow up post said that he "jerks off to videos of big dicks". That level of attraction seems to go beyond the "noticing" or "admiring" level that you correctly defend.

Norse

 

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ORCABOMBER: Of course, it really matter is if you want to FUCK a big dick, surely?

 

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GeorgenFLA: I dont consider myself gay/bi, but since I was a boy I have been checking out dicks. Its just a curiousity thing, completely normal. I have even jacked off with other men, and for me, its just a form of male bonding. Actually more masculine than not jacking with a few buddies.