Does Gay Anal Sex Hurt With A Big Dick ?

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I haven't bottomed for over 40 years now, but after I first came out, I was fucked by a guy with a cock probably almost as big as mine (which is pretty thick). I remember it hurt like hell at first, but once I learned to relax and not tense up, it felt good enough that I had a "hands-free" orgasm within a couple minutes! Now I know what a supreme compliment that is for a top!
 

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Hurt? It depends on many factors, the key is to understanding the nerves and muscles in ones ass. In my case, my first fuck I will always remember, it hurt just a bit, then the sensation of a nice sized, about 6" long, sliding in and out and I was hooked. Now years later when I discovered the power on my prostate, well my hole is hungry all the time.
 

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I very rarely am on the receiving end, but I do remember my first time. I never measured him but my guess is close to 8 inches long and thick. He was mostly a total bottom but we were in a relationship and I wanted to see what it was like being the receiver. He tried, but my sphincter did not want to cooperate and it hurt quite a bit. I sometimes wonder if he did it that way so we could flip roles as he loved taking it and never did like the top position. I much prefer top but in a relationship or FWB I may flip if the person is someone I want to do that with. As a rule, I'd much rather be on the topside vs the bottom.
 
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To me, the intimate animal act of sodomy between males felt amazing and I was hooked the first time I got fucked. And then, my 3rd partner ever was a thick 8.5 incher who was surprised how easily i took him. That was when i learned that hung guys--especially extra thick ones like myself--have trouble finding guys that can take them. He said I was a natural bottom. I just saw his huge penis and wanted it inside me. I really do believe a lot of it i mental and the rest is training. I have never encountered a guy I couldn't take--even had two guys sharing my ass simultaneously--and the feel of a guy's erection moving in and out of me, stimulating all those pleasure circuits til the guy unloads, never gets old or feel bad.
 

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Guy who was 7.5-8 inches took my virginity. It was fat too. Didn’t really hurt that much. He made sure to loosen me up though with toys and eating me out and just overall making me feel comfortable. Also a lot of lube. He definitely made it easier to take even bigger dicks haha.
 
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I am versatile and have been with guys with all different size cocks. Yes, large cocks can hurt, but they don't necessarily have to. My buddy is 8"x7" and he is so good about prepping me there is no pain at all.

In college I lived with a guy who was 9" long and if he got aggressive and started thrusting fast and deep it was his length, not girth that sometimes hurt when he bottomed out.
 
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I am versatile and have been with guys with all different size cocks. Yes, large cocks can hurt, but they don't necessarily have to. My buddy is 8"x7" and he is so good about prepping me there is no pain at all.

In college I lived with a guy who was 9" long and if he got aggressive and started thrusting fast and deep it was his length, not girth that sometimes hurt when he bottomed out.
 
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I had a truly awful introduction to anal, which made it a hard limit for years. After that time though, I did have some interest. Ended up trying it again with my partner, and they are definitely on the more endowed side. Proper preparation and lots of lube made it just fine, even without having a prostate.
 

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everyone has a different anatomy, if the dick is long enough to pass the puborectal sling, yes it feels good enough to have a hands free orgasm, if it is not long enough and just pokes around back there, it hurts like hell. shorter guys 7" is enough taller guys 8"+
 

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Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Technique seems to be way more important than size. Quick, jabbing thrusts is a great way to introduce pain into the experience. I had one experience with an endowed alpha dom top (oh, this is making me hard just thinking about it) but he was so quick and forceful I just couldn't take him. Whereas the last gentleman I had the pleasure to be with was packing one of the largest penises I'd ever seen up close and in person, and I still can't believe what he managed to do to me and in me, all pain free.