Does getting a BJ from a guy make me gay?

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  1. JulesD

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    I went with a friend to a club on friday night and stayed over at his flat afterwards. We were both pretty drunk, so he went to bed and I lay on the couch with a porn mag and decided to have a wank. I was pretty close to cumming when I saw him standing there, he said he had also just finished having one.

    He saw the one pic was a chick sucking a guys cocks and said that there is nothing better than a BJ. I said I had only fucked 3 chicks before with a condom and had never had a BJ before. He said he woud give me one and that its not gay as long as imagine a girl is doing it. Being drunk and horny I agreed. We turned out the lights and I lay back on the couch.

    He said I must close my eyes nd imagine the hot blonde from behind the bar was rubbing my cock, which he did, then kissing it and licking my balls, which he did. Then he said I must imagine her about to slide her wet pussy over it, at which point he took me in his mouth. It was awesome! My cock had never felt so good before. After a few minutes I moaned that I was going to cum and I thought he would just wank me finished, but he kept me in his mouth and as he felt my hips thrust up in orgasm he basically sucked the cum right out of me. I must have shot about 5 or 6 times and he kept on sucking and swallowed everything.

    I love BJ's! :)
     
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    Doesn't make you gay. But you are bisexual....10% lol. I know that little story just got my Dick hard! I've been with plenty of chicks, and non of them gave better BJ's than most of the men I have been with.
     
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    It doesn't make you gay. You already had gay tendencies (it's a gradient, not a yes or no thing). This is proven by the sheer fact that you weren't revolted by his offer, drunk or not.

    d'aww ninja'd.
     
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    Having sex with a guy does NOT make you gay. Either you had gay tendencies beforehand or not. Being gay or bi is about who you are as a person, not who you have sex with. For a lot of people that doesn't make sense and some dumbasses use it as a means to pretend they aren't gay when they obviously are. For example, they say to themselves, since having sex with guys doesn't make me gay and can have all the sex I want with guys and still be straight! That is a misinterpretation. It is the desire to have sex with a man that makes you gay or bi, not the actual sex.

    That all being said, I'd be very careful about having any kind of sex with this guy again. Granted, you really enjoyed it, but is it fair for you to expect him to blow you and not reciprocate in some way? You wouldn't be a friend if you did. It may seem fair to him (at least at first) since he gets to blow someone he's atracted to. But in the end, it is a parasitic relationship, not a friendship. Now if you don't mind using your "friend" as a "cocksucker" (hate that term) so be it. But understand that you and he would have stopped being friends, and you would be using him like a whore. If the two of you are okay with that, then so be it, have at it.
     
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    no your not gay! You just loved having your cock sucked! Plus I doubt most girls would have made you cum!
     
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    I also do not think you are gay, but open minded and a bit on the fluid side. There is pleasue to be found all around, and you were receptive to that. I think this experience with your bud will bond the two of you. Keep us posted on the developments since the bj. Next time you initiate it....be sure to post!
     
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    You're clearly not straight. Welcome to the club.

    Sometimes we need to let our guard down to find out about ourselves. You just did. In vini veritas.
     
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    Does eating bacon make you a pig farmer?
     
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    Huh? He fantasized about a girl (in detail) and he had a porn mag as well. That's quite a statement you made there that is totally unfounded based upon his own words. It was his first blow job and you think only a guy could have made him climax? :rolleyes:

    Why not just agree he is bisexual instead of trying to manipulate the situation?:confused:
     
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    use the search feature ................this question has been asked 50 times I'm sure.
     
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    ... no no no...how many times have I said!!! Getting a blow job from a fella does not make you gay!! Knowing the playlist to Judy Garland's Carnegie Hall 1961 concert does!!! Enjoy pal and may you get many more 'straight' blow jobs from other men...
     
  12. IntoxicatingToxin

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    Getting a BJ from a guy doesn't make you anything other than a guy who got a BJ from another dude.

    I wish people would quit with the labels already. :cool:
     
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    Having sex with the same sex is either gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Nothing straight about it. No way that anyone can change that fact. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

    Anyone who tells to lie to yourself or some else is lying to themselves and sincerely enjoys living that way. Obviously, deception everywhere rules their lives. Be better than the next person and give your soul the freedom it needs.
     
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    It doesn't make you anything. I jerk off regularly, does that mean I can't get laid. Of course not, it just means I enjoy pleasuring myself alone sometimes.
     
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    Well, you're not straight.
     
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    'Nuff said.
     
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    Is that your 99% talking...? ;-)
     
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    I have had a number of sexual encounters with women, and I am afraid that they did not make me straight. As far as the guy saying that you are using your friend as a "whore," I am used as a whore by many of my friends. I love giving blowjobs. I don't have to have my friends reciprocate. I am happy to pleaseure them and take care of myself later. I am also happy if they want to take care of me. It is not necessary.
     
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    No, absolutely no. If you begin perferring getting sucked by guys rather than females then that would question your orientation. Your being drunk and having to imagine your hardon going into an eager pussy as his mouth began enclosing your fuck tool is a strong indication that your sexual orientation is str8.

    Yeah, like someone has already posted in this threat, I, too, wish we were not so hung up on labels and could just enjoy giving our cocks pleasure all different ways.
     
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    And this argument closes the debate!
     
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