Does getting a BJ from a guy make me gay?
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I hate labels as much as the next guy/girl, but for a new guy, I can see them wondering this question. There have been enough "right on" answers, I need say nothing more about that :smile:
I did want to comment to Hockey Tiger..
I have known guys that absolutely did not want to be reciprocated. They got their complete enjoyment just performing. Chances are that this guy probably will if this continues, but only time will tell.
I don't necessarily consider it "using them" or that they are a "whore", just that they want something different than most of us would :smile:
I did want to comment to Hockey Tiger..
I have known guys that absolutely did not want to be reciprocated. They got their complete enjoyment just performing. Chances are that this guy probably will if this continues, but only time will tell.
I don't necessarily consider it "using them" or that they are a "whore", just that they want something different than most of us would :smile:
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Live your life however you want. I'm not going to tell you that you are doing anything wrong (and you certainly aren't). But I will say, that if you are giving your friends BJ's without any kind of reciprocation, then you aren't really friends. Friends don't "use" each other, for sex, or anything else. They give and take. It is that mutuality and mutual respect for one another that makes you friends. A friend would want to give back in some way, and would feel guilty by not doing so.
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I feel very sorry for those who have asserted that females cannot give satisfactory bj's. It is a learnable talent. That you were able to enjoy one from the same sex does make you a tiny bit bi but by no means are you gay. What pleases you is what defines you, and females seem to be your primary fantasy material.
To the OP: No, receiving a BJ from a guy does not make you gay.
But really, is it all that necessary to put a label on everything? I *could* have sex with a woman, or eat her pussy out (I never have, for the record), but that wouldn't make me straight.
If it feels good and you're comfortable with it, run with it. You don't need to put a label on it, and you certainly don't have to feel shame about it, either.
But really, is it all that necessary to put a label on everything? I *could* have sex with a woman, or eat her pussy out (I never have, for the record), but that wouldn't make me straight.
If it feels good and you're comfortable with it, run with it. You don't need to put a label on it, and you certainly don't have to feel shame about it, either.
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Gay, bi, straight, lesbian..... Who cares and who is anyone to label anyone as such. The question here is: did you enjoy it? Yes you did. Were you forced to it? No you weren't so the hell with all labels. Sex can be very fluid for some so take it as a gift from the Gods and enjoy your friend's blowjobs. You are both lucky to have each other.
I used to think that everybody should reciprocate equally, top/bottom giver/receiver, regardless of whether they particularly enjoyed it. It was an epiphany to discover there are people who derive pleasure doing things I'm not particularly into and vice versa. Once I discovered that, I became a much happier camper, sexually speaking. People are into all sorts of different things - we are not all wired the same.
It's a matter of being complementary, not being exactly the same in your desires. If you and your sex partner are complementary, everybody's happy and satisfied. Noone's being "used", it is "give and take". Try to expand your mind, and you might find you're happier too. As Countryguy and other posters have pointed out here and in many other threads, there are guys who are totally into sucking cock and don't want to be reciprocated, especially in a casual suckbud situation. I love those guys. :biggrin2: (and apparently they like me too)
Here's a recent thread among many more on this theme: Cocksuckers - What do you love about sucking cock?
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I went with a friend to a club on friday night and stayed over at his flat afterwards. We were both pretty drunk, so he went to bed and I lay on the couch with a porn mag and decided to have a wank. I was pretty close to cumming when I saw him standing there, he said he had also just finished having one.
He saw the one pic was a chick sucking a guys cocks and said that there is nothing better than a BJ. I said I had only fucked 3 chicks before with a condom and had never had a BJ before. He said he woud give me one and that its not gay as long as imagine a girl is doing it. Being drunk and horny I agreed. We turned out the lights and I lay back on the couch.
He said I must close my eyes nd imagine the hot blonde from behind the bar was rubbing my cock, which he did, then kissing it and licking my balls, which he did. Then he said I must imagine her about to slide her wet pussy over it, at which point he took me in his mouth. It was awesome! My cock had never felt so good before. After a few minutes I moaned that I was going to cum and I thought he would just wank me finished, but he kept me in his mouth and as he felt my hips thrust up in orgasm he basically sucked the cum right out of me. I must have shot about 5 or 6 times and he kept on sucking and swallowed everything.
I love BJ's!
Not a 100% gay but you might want to think about upping that 10% mark quite a bit.
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No, not at all. I am bi, not gay i love sex with women and certain kinds of guys. I have also given a few straight guys bj's. I hate labels, 100% gay guys dont like the fact that some guys like both. When i was in college, i fucked several straight guys when they were drunk or just horny, they would not suck dick, but they wanted to get fucked.
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Bbbbut . . . you're labelling.
Yes. As soon as another guy puts his mouth on your dick, the gay germs travel up your urethra and follow your circulatory system to your brain infecting you with gayness. The more you allow it, the gayer you will become.
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Same here... I just enjoy helping out a "straight" friend in need..
and I don't feel used, bcuz I'm normally the one asking for it.. lol
I consider myself 100% gay, but I also respect the fact that there ARE indeed bi guys out there who swing both ways. The sexuality spectrum is wide and vast. You are somewhat correct, though: There are a LOT of 100% gay guys that don't like the fact that some guys DO like both men and women. I think most of those guys have some sort of insecurity issue with it, but that's my opinion. Nothing more.
Like everything else in life, there are exceptions to the rule. Not all of us 100% gay guys fall into your stereotype. :wink:
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