Don't you just hate stigma's. Why can't I like showtunes, a white leather belt, the new model VW Beetle, and sewing my own pleated pants without raising an eyebrow. I never wanted a massage from a dude, and male lips around my manhood is not a fantasy I've ever had.
Anybody here though, don't lie, must think a large throbbing schlong is attractive, and is naturally bewilderd when a woman doesn't want to suck us, especially if the other side is so willing. If you have any empathy at all, you should wonder if she enjoys the moment.
Straight men should be jealous of gay men, not having to put up with women's issues.
Labels, Image, are so important in our culture. Even cyclists today dress in racing clothing lest people think they're car-less or have too many DUIs. Instead of a simple aprons, "Chefs" wear chefs' uniforms.
So somebody is 'concerned' they might be 'gay' after recieving a blowjob from a man, and is told, "No no you're not." - but looking like you could be, means you are. ??