Does getting a BJ from a guy make me gay?

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I feel like gay is more than sex. Homosexuality is when you feel the way about a man that you should only feel for a woman. More than sex goes into that.

no its bisexuality. i am in love with my first guy. been in love with women previously and i still like to have sex with a woman and would fall in love with one again i am sure.
feeling 'that way" about a guy, cuddling, making out, and sucking and fucking does not make you gay/homosexual if you are also attracted and turned on by females it makes you BI.
 

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no its bisexuality. i am in love with my first guy. been in love with women previously and i still like to have sex with a woman and would fall in love with one again i am sure.
feeling 'that way" about a guy, cuddling, making out, and sucking and fucking does not make you gay/homosexual if you are also attracted and turned on by females it makes you BI.

Good point.
 

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JulesD... Here is my opinion - Sexual acts don't make you gay, bi, or str8... even if you repeat them over and over. I had plenty of sex with girls, which I enjoyed, when I was younger but I knew deep down that I preferred men (even before I ever did anything sexual with a man). I enjoyed sex with girls because, it felt good to me and it was nice knowing I was giving pleasure to another person.
You ARE what you ARE... I think a good indication is to ask yourself this. When you're alone and no one is watching, what kind of porn do you jerk off to?
Straight people have sexual encounters with member of the same sex for many different reasons. On the other hand, gays can sometimes have sex with the opposite sex for different reasons. It's my opinion that having sex with both men and women does not make a true bisexual. I feel a person can only be a true bisexual if they are capable of having a long term relationship with both a man and a woman. Anything else, to me, should be considered experimental, desperate, sense of duty, curious, fear, etc....
I don't add "drunk" to this list because I don't think alcohol causes you to do things you don't want to do, it only allows you to do things you're too fearful to do sober. Just my opinon.
 

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Doesn't make you gay. But you are bisexual....10% lol. I know that little story just got my Dick hard! I've been with plenty of chicks, and non of them gave better BJ's than most of the men I have been with.
I agree and if you like girls still too that definitely makes you bi wel come to my world!
 

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Sexual orientation is about what you are, not what you do. A gay guy can fuck a woman but that doesn't make him straight. Many straight male performers are 'gay for pay' and go home to their wives and girlfriends after a day at the office without doubting their own sexuality. I don't think we should get quite so hung up about what people do.
 
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