Does giving birth make it easier to take in a big cock?

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I know instinctively I would think yes...however I work a kegel exerciser and my small to avg. DP tells me it gets awfully tight in there (I of course feel it too, I still clamp down nicely).

Thoughts on this? If my pussy can get big will this be a huge advantage? Sometimes I can't feel DP too much, not sure if it me, that he is smaller or if it is that he is not as hard these days (he is not as hard now in his 40s).
 

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Good loving has to do with treating a woman with loving respect and kindness. Then, gentle foreplay and when she is ready penis size means nothing. She is ready to enjoy and soon to have an orgasm, or maybe half a dozen.
 

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Good loving has to do with treating a woman with loving respect and kindness. Then, gentle foreplay and when she is ready penis size means nothing. She is ready to enjoy and soon to have an orgasm, or maybe half a dozen.

That is such a sweet and romantic answer.

I have a feeling penis size is going to mean something though. Granted, pleasure is pleasure and who is going to turn it down. DP may be slightly less than average in girth, and I do have toys that are thicker that feel phenomenal. Though, I am multi-orgasmic through sex with him...DP thinks that I am going to be a size queen since I am so into penetration. I have tried thicker things during self pleasuring, but that isn't the same as sex...

I guess I am just a little scared.
 

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Sweet, romantic answers to the contrary, size can be very important to some women. There are positions that can maximize the amount of sensation that a smallish cock can give you... but if you need size, girth or length or both, you need it. Sorry to be realistic. It 's just my experience as a big guy, who has given satisfaction to many previously less-than-totally satisfied women.
 
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Sweet, romantic answers to the contrary, size can be very important to some women. There are positions that can maximize the amount of sensation that a smallish cock can give you... but if you need size, girth or length or both, you need it. Sorry to be realistic. It 's just my experience as a big guy, who has given satisfaction to many previously less-than-totally satisfied women.

Seriously, I can't wait to find out. My instincts are that I will go crazy with a bigger girth. The thicker toys feel so good!!!

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Seriously, I can't wait to find out. My instincts are that I will go crazy with a bigger girth. The thicker toys feel so good!!!

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you may love bigger girth, but more than one women has told me the clamping down you referred to was the key to a more intense orgasm and that extra girth made that difficult for them to clamp
 

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you may love bigger girth, but more than one women has told me the clamping down you referred to was the key to a more intense orgasm and that extra girth made that difficult for them to clamp

I actually do kegels, pulling up and clamping, and releasing, during sex...eventually it just pulls up and tightens as the tension builds and I don't have to think about doing any. He claims he can feel all that and he knows if I am about to squirt. :confused:
 

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Oh, and then there is a fear of having a new sex partner, what if he thinks I am too loose? Granted this guy is probably 9"-10" and very thick. I mean, does all pussy feel good? Should I not be worrying about this?

I kind of want to visit all these fears head on so I can let it go and just jump right in with no inhibitions. I am very confident in my sexual response, it would just hurt me if he thought I wasn't giving him enough pleasure or that my body was too used...
 
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I actually do kegels, pulling up and clamping, and releasing, during sex...eventually it just pulls up and tightens as the tension builds and I don't have to think about doing any. He claims he can feel all that and he knows if I am about to squirt. :confused:
this exactly.....I must admit I'm a bit confused what is a DP and it sounds like you can clamp down on a under average dick and rip it out by its root why are you worried that a guy with a fat 9-10 dick will think your loose?
 

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this exactly.....I must admit I'm a bit confused what is a DP and it sounds like you can clamp down on a under average dick and rip it out by its root why are you worried that a guy with a fat 9-10 dick will think your loose?

Dear Partner = DP

I sorta use that interchangeably with DH...

I don't know about ripping it out by its root LOL. :biggrin1:
 

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Dear Partner = DP

I sorta use that interchangeably with DH...

I don't know about ripping it out by its root LOL. :biggrin1:

Lol! Here DP means double penetration!

Might want to stick with DH when referring to your Dear Hubby! :biggrin1:
 

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Oh, this is hilarious! Can you tell I am new...? :redface:

Thanks for the heads up, I need to learn the lingo...

No problem! But you can see where some of the guys might have gotten confused. :smile:
 

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I'm a little confused. You have a DP/DH, and you're worried about a super huge partner...Are you becoming a hotwife/swinger?
 

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No problem! But you can see where some of the guys might have gotten confused. :smile:

Actually DP sounds good too...I orgasm during anal too (which I hear is rare). Will have to put that on the sexual bucket list...

I'm a little confused. You have a DP/DH, and you're worried about a super huge partner...Are you becoming a hotwife/swinger?

Yeah..on the way...but what does the term hotwife mean? I do have a FWB prospect right now, but I feel like he is dicking me around a little and not answering my emails. I am trying to assume that it is because he knows me well and how new I am to this, and trying to take it slow. But right now I just want to f%&$ him in every way imaginable. sigh. He is the one who is hung....

It is just stupid that I am having sex 10-15 times a week with the hubby with lots of orgasms and I am still getting frustrated. :confused:
 

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but what does the term hotwife mean?

Riiiiight...it's a woman who goes through menopause during an orgasm...what does any of this have to do with giving birth?

Sorry to hear about your DP and how his erections aren't as hard as they used to be. He made it longer than most guys, though. My erection, for example, turned as soft as an overripe banana at age 33. I have to scotch tape a popsicle stick to it for intercourse.
 
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Riiiiight...it's a woman who goes through menopause during an orgasm...what does any of this have to do with giving birth?

Sorry to hear about your DP and how his erections aren't as hard as they used to be. He made it longer than most guys, though. My erection, for example, turned as soft as an overripe banana at age 33. I have to scotch tape a popsicle stick to it for intercourse.

Uh, I just looked it up...looks like sex with another man with Hubby's approval.

I think a certain amount of change is normal...it is just that he'll try to have sex like 4 times in one night like we used to. The first two times usually there are no issues but I'd he makes it to a third well, things aren't as stiff...and so forth. So I don't know if he can claim erectile distinction in that case, it just seems like normal aging. He still lasts a really long time.

The issue with size is me wondering if having given birth will make it easier to stretch. The hubby brought me something home tonight to try out that is about the right size so I guess I will see!
 
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