Does having a big dick make you happier? Personal experience.

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I've been a sex worker for 37 years. For much of my life till around 50 I had the dick of most peoples dreams. Thick and 8.5". I had some spectacular sex with it and always scored well at the baths. Then a client grabbed me too hard, I developed Peyronies Syndrome and lost 3". How did it effect me? Well I could no longer fuck in case I could make it worse, but I had always preferred good head anyway. I still did well as an erotic masseur, people still wanted to play with me and I never had a long term sex partner till after my dick shrunk. I do miss it. Of course. But it didn't end my sex life. I had spectacular sex when I had the big dick, but in terms of overall happiness I am much more content, happier and love my self more now than I did when I was super hung. My biggest complaint is that before I could use both hands to read a book in the can but now my dick is very small soft and points straight out and I pee all over the floor if I forget to point it down.
 

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I feel like my size is one of, if not the only redeeming quality I have going for myself and the only thing i
I have to fall back on to be honest, and barely even so considering I’m small compared to a lot of other dudes on here and elsewhere online. I feel like would be happier if I were bigger. That way, I’d be more able to claim it as a redeeming quality and I’d be able to amount to more via self improvement.
 

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Whatever I say about size is mitigated by the reality of my size. You can not fault any guy for being the size they are although some find pleasure in being humiliated for being small in comparison to a guy more substantial sized; it is all relative.

There is a place for everyone in this spectrum of physical differences. It becomes difficult when you suffer the challenges of age, infection or deformity but fortunately there is always a lesson to be learned in life.

As to the "Capitolhillguy", it is great to have a time in the spotlight. Seeing your photos, I think you still have a lot to be proud of; keeping in mind that pride always proceeds a fall. Age will take your special attributes and deminish them to to nothing so be ready for some difficult adjustments you will have to accept.
 

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I've been a sex worker for 37 years. For much of my life till around 50 I had the dick of most peoples dreams. Thick and 8.5". I had some spectacular sex with it and always scored well at the baths. Then a client grabbed me too hard, I developed Peyronies Syndrome and lost 3".
I know the syndrome causes curvature of the penis, but how did you lose 3 inches? How was your injury treated?

Does Having A Big Dick Make You Happier? Personal Experience.​

Answering this question, my dick size was totally irrelevant until I started having sex (18+) and the women I was with who had multiple previous partners all commented on my size. It was really nice to get the compliments, and it certainly boosted my self confidence.

But ... dick size doesn't determine if you are a good lover or not. From the beginning I noticed I got more turned on when the woman I was with was getting the most pleasure I could give her, which was the combination of kissing, caressing, sucking fingering, etc, and not just my dick being inside her pussy. (Although that didn't hurt! ;))

Being able to please the woman I am with does make me happier as I get to share sexual pleasure with another person. Being in love with that person also adds to the experience in my case.

Bottom line, it's not the size of the dick but how you use it!
 

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Yes and no? I mean my dick size does not define my happiness, but it does in some ways add to it. The confidence of never having to worry about feeling too small or inadequate has made me feel better for most of my life when being intimate with someone.

And then there is the compliments or happy reactions when I show it to a partner for the first time, or the playful, occasional praise I have gotten over the years from past girlfriends/fwb who would sometimes remind me on occasion, as a form of affection and praise, of my larger size and how pleased they were with it.

So does it make me happy? Not in a general sense, but does it make me happy when a girl I am in love with or having a fwb fling with goes out of her way to occasionally praise it and admire its size solely as means to express affection to a man in only a way a woman can do? Than yes, absolutely.

So yeah, my big dick does not make me happy, but it has added to my happiness over the years in light of what I just shared.
 
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Does Having A Big Dick Make You Happier? Personal Experience.​


No, not to my knowledge. I have known a cup of Coffee to make me happy. Sadly it costs 2 dollars to but a large coffee, there is no discount for large penis size.

When it comes to sex with a woman, Do Not believe porn where the bigger is always better. An Ouch, a go slower, does not always enhance the experience. Nor does her conversation the next day about having some lingering pain
 

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I know the syndrome causes curvature of the penis, but how did you lose 3 inches? How was your injury treated?

Does Having A Big Dick Make You Happier? Personal Experience.​

Answering this question, my dick size was totally irrelevant until I started having sex (18+) and the women I was with who had multiple previous partners all commented on my size. It was really nice to get the compliments, and it certainly boosted my self confidence.

But ... dick size doesn't determine if you are a good lover or not. From the beginning I noticed I got more turned on when the woman I was with was getting the most pleasure I could give her, which was the combination of kissing, caressing, sucking fingering, etc, and not just my dick being inside her pussy. (Although that didn't hurt! ;))

Being able to please the woman I am with does make me happier as I get to share sexual pleasure with another person. Being in love with that person also adds to the experience in my case.

Bottom line, it's not the size of the dick but how you use it!
It was part of the syndrome. With time the curve went away but the scar shortened my monster cock into a wimp LOL
 
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It was part of the syndrome. With time the curve went away but the scar shortened my monster cock into a wimp LOL
Yikes! My cock was pretty much broke, early days. But—-involved with very knowledgeable people—-they invested a lot of time and ‘hands on’ into recovery.

probably got longer, definitely stronger. Looks normal—-but pump with a firm grip and you can kinda feel a ridge/ring.

it was thru my rehab, interaction with these people that I gained true control and the ability to orgasm w/o ejaculating.
 
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Whatever I say about size is mitigated by the reality of my size. You can not fault any guy for being the size they are although some find pleasure in being humiliated for being small in comparison to a guy more substantial sized; it is all relative.

There is a place for everyone in this spectrum of physical differences. It becomes difficult when you suffer the challenges of age, infection or deformity but fortunately there is always a lesson to be learned in life.

As to the "Capitolhillguy", it is great to have a time in the spotlight. Seeing your photos, I think you still have a lot to be proud of; keeping in mind that pride always proceeds a fall. Age will take your special attributes and deminish them to to nothing so be ready for some difficult adjustments you will have to accept.
I agree with everything you said except your last sentence. Age will definitely change things - sometimes a lot, but other than death, it isn't the end of everything.
 

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I've been a sex worker for 37 years. For much of my life till around 50 I had the dick of most peoples dreams. Thick and 8.5". I had some spectacular sex with it and always scored well at the baths. Then a client grabbed me too hard, I developed Peyronies Syndrome and lost 3". How did it effect me? Well I could no longer fuck in case I could make it worse, but I had always preferred good head anyway. I still did well as an erotic masseur, people still wanted to play with me and I never had a long term sex partner till after my dick shrunk. I do miss it. Of course. But it didn't end my sex life. I had spectacular sex when I had the big dick, but in terms of overall happiness I am much more content, happier and love my self more now than I did when I was super hung. My biggest complaint is that before I could use both hands to read a book in the can but now my dick is very small soft and points straight out and I pee all over the floor if I forget to point it down.
Yes
 

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Its difficult to decide unless one knows (has knowledge or experience) both sides of the coin. But, the pleasure or happiness is what one feels, though body becomes a media to feet it, but can not be given by others, that's what I believe in. For an example, you are served a tasty food and you are not hungry or not in a mood to enjoy it. Can you really able to appreciate it? Like this one can have many experiences in daily life. @Capitolhillguy, you have already experienced it and mat agreed to it also.
 
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