Does having a high partner count affect women?

[AlteredEgo]

Hi women,

Question 1;

There are plenty of studies / articles that shows that the higher partner count a woman has, it'll make it harder to bond with a future husband / boyfriend / partner. What's your thoughts on this?

Question 2;

In my own experience; I'd say the women I've met that has been sleeping around with plenty of men are almost always a bit broken, bad relationship with her father, abusive childhood etc - and seem to seek validation from sex with men. Do you think it correlates, having issues of various sorts and having a high partner count?

I'm looking forward to your answers.

The only problem I have ever had bonding with any man that was related to my previous sexual experience being as prolific as it has been, has been when they jump to conclusions like the ones in your second question. So, no. With men worth my time and expertise, promiscuity has not had any negative impact on bonding.

 

[MrTh1ck]

Boo hoo hoo....

Did I ask the same BS questions as you.

What a little insecure wanker...

You're the one crying, not me.

So elaborate your answers or GTFO tiny one.

 

[MrTh1ck]

The only problem I have ever had bonding with any man that was related to my previous sexual experience being as prolific as it has been, has been when they jump to conclusions like the ones in your second question. So, no. With men worth my time and expertise, promiscuity has not had any negative impact on bonding.

Yes, I'm sure that's the only time

 

[AlteredEgo]

Answer the questions instead of posting nonsense.

It was not nonsense. We all understood she said if you were trying to attract better partners, you'd need better bait. Shit, after all, does not attract butterflies.

 

[693987]

Predictable. We don't play along/pander to his stereotypes and it goes from posts based on garbage journalism and a personal blog to condescension at the drop of a hat.

 

[MrTh1ck]

It was not nonsense. We all understood she said if you were trying to attract better partners, you'd need better bait. Shit, after all, does not attract butterflies.

I suggest you read OP again. Don't be so butthurt cause' you somehow feel that my questions are true

 

[MrTh1ck]

Predictable. We don't play along/pander to his stereotypes and it goes from posts based on garbage journalism and a personal blog to condescension at the drop of a hat.

Rather; You don't have any good points to answer my questions, so the majority of you just going for insults. Way to go girls!!

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

How about you GTFO? We answered your stupid fucking question, and you didn't get an echo chamber for your shit.

Ridiculous.

 

[693987]

Rather; You don't have any good points to answer my questions, so the majority of you just going for insults. Way to go girls!!

Saying your post is based off of stereotypes isn't an insult. Saying WordPress and Daily Mail don't work as a "source" isn't an insult. Saying your posts are condescending isn't an insult.

You compared someone who copied your own writing, just swapping out the gender, to a child, and you keep referring to mature, adult women as girls. That is condescending.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Yes, I'm sure that's the only time

What's with the attitude? You asked, I answered. I'm not broken. I don't have anything unresolved with my father. I know the difference between sex and love, and sometimes I want one or the other from a given man, rarely, with someone special, I want both. I figured out that sex is fun and the risks can be safely managed, and never looked back.

As far as it pertains to my sexual history, I do not view a man who would hold it against me as compatible; I perceive them as less intelligent, bigoted, potentially sexist. Clearly, out values are misaligned. Therefore, these are not men worth my time. They are not for me. I'm sorry if that hurts your widdle feelings, but your hurt feelings are illogical. C'mon. Neither of us is on the other's radar at all.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You ladies remember the Most Annoying Threads? My answer so applies to this stupid thread.
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/most-annoying-threads.473694/#post-6509958

 

[693987]

My youth was fine, my relationship with my father is fine, and I'm a happy, sex-positive woman. I haven't had a problem forming relationships, other than my very first serious relationship. That relationship was also when I had barely been with anyone and was quite naive, as a somewhat sheltered 18 year old. I picked someone who was a piece of shit. It was a learning experience and I moved the fuck on. My relationships since then have been fine. Some were incompatible as we got to know each other, and that's why they tended to be kept brief, because I don't believe in stringing people along. My current relationship has been going for years and is still going. My sweetie knows my past. I know his too. It doesn't matter.

I COULD try and base things off of stereotypes, and make click bait threads about how men are awful, because of my one truly shitty relationship and reference a personal blog and some garbage journalism, but I don't. Crazy.

 

[MrTh1ck]

@Fade
@AlteredEgo
@Everyone else


It's funny how you all get offended like I'm asking about your relationship with your father etc. The OP is a general question; e.g the women you know / your own experience / what you've heard.

It rather feels like most of you feel this is some personal attack on yourself, which it's not.


However, let's face it; High quality men does not want a woman with a high partner count, generally. You guys can be how offended you want by that, face it though, it's the truth.

I guess there's only one reason to why you guys are offended though

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

What the fuck would you know about high quality men?

 

[AlteredEgo]

I suggest you read OP again. Don't be so butthurt cause' you somehow feel that my questions are true

Wow. You disgust me. I know why you attract broken women. No one with high self-worth puts up with a man like you. You can only aspire to low-hanging fruit. I would suggest you read and write more carefully. YOU are the one who said you have experience with broken women. I didn't say you were shit. I wrote that the rest of us understood you were being called shit. I refuted only your assertion that her post was nonsense, your implication that she could not be understood. I should have just assumed @MickeyLee was correct in her assesment. You are about as useful to a woman here as a soup sandwich.

You come here with your preconceived notions you claim come from "plenty of studies" but cannot begin to back up with actual science from credible academic sources, and when we say it doesn't pan out for us as you say, you freak out. You've been nothing but presumptuous, from the limitations of you poll (which is why I did not answer) to your incredulous responses, condescending in your address, and all but one poster were cordial in response. Yet you want to know why you keep attracting broken women. LOL

 

[AlteredEgo]

@Fade
@AlteredEgo
@Everyone else


It's funny how you all get offended like I'm asking about your relationship with your father etc. The OP is a general question; e.g the women you know / your own experience / what you've heard.

It rather feels like most of you feel this is some personal attack on yourself, which it's not.


However, let's face it; High quality men does not want a woman with a high partner count, generally. You guys can be how offended you want by that, face it though, it's the truth.

I guess there's only one reason to why you guys are offended though

I haven't had trouble attracting. Ery high quality men. I have had no trouble keeping them if I wanted, either. I have had trouble finding quite the right fit, but generally, I want out, and they still want in. I don't struggle to bond. On the other hand, I have fucked a whole lot of dudes. Like... Many. So many. I'm not ashamed. I'm not unhappy. That is my personal experience. You asked a question that all one has with which to answer IS personal experience. How is my relationship with my father anything but relevant to my answer? My, Gawd, but you are not very bright.

 

[693987]

@Fade
@AlteredEgo
@Everyone else


It's funny how you all get offended like I'm asking about your relationship with your father etc. The OP is a general question; e.g the women you know / your own experience / what you've heard.

It rather feels like most of you feel this is some personal attack on yourself, which it's not.


However, let's face it; High quality men does not want a woman with a high partner count, generally. You guys can be how offended you want by that, face it though, it's the truth.

I guess there's only one reason to why you guys are offended though

Try again. I'm not offended. I point out blatant stereotyping and crap sources in other threads too. I'm speaking about my personal experiences, because I'm not so stupid or arrogant as to try to speak for other people. Especially when I'm not citing any credible sources.

My sweetie by all accounts and purposes is a catch. He's good looking (given the multitudes of people that hit on him), he has a good job, he's intelligent, he's funny, he's kind. Other men that I know of who are (by all the usual traits that Western Society considers important or good) catches don't give a fuck about their partner's promiscuity or lack thereof in the past either.

The main reason why that kind of thing might matter to some men goes back to (as I already said) treating women like a commodity, a thing to be owned. I don't want to be around that kind of man, and none of the women I know of do either. Even the extremely kinky Master/slave couples I know, their slave is a thing to be treasured, and their sex positivity a blessing and source of happiness.

 

[MrTh1ck]

Wow. You disgust me. I know why you attract broken women. No one with high self-worth puts up with a man like you. You can only aspire to low-hanging fruit. I would suggest you read and write more carefully. YOU are the one who said you have experience with broken women. I didn't say you were shit. I wrote that the rest of us understood you were being called shit. I refuted only your assertion that her post was nonsense, your implication that she could not be understood. I should have just assumed @MickeyLee was correct in her assesment. You are about as useful to a woman here as a soup sandwich.

You come here with your preconceived notions you claim come from "plenty of studies" but cannot begin to back up with actual science from credible academic sources, and when we say it doesn't pan out for us as you say, you freak out. You've been nothing but presumptuous, from the limitations of you poll (which is why I did not answer) to your incredulous responses, condescending in your address, and all but one poster were cordial in response. Yet you want to know why you keep attracting broken women. LOL

Your illogical arguments your feelings are spitting out right now aren't valid, sweetheart

Now quote the line where I keep attracting broken women.

It's very interesting that you get so wound up about this subject however, I genuinely wonder why..

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Oh fuck off already

*hits ignore button*

Sheesh, that's 2 on my list now.

 

[MrTh1ck]

Try again. I'm not offended. I point out blatant stereotyping and crap sources in other threads too. I'm speaking about my personal experiences, because I'm not so stupid or arrogant as to try to speak for other people. Especially when I'm not citing any credible sources.

My sweetie by all accounts and purposes is a catch. He's good looking (given the multitudes of people that hit on him), he has a good job, he's intelligent, he's funny, he's kind. Other men that I know of who are (by all the usual traits that Western Society considers important or good) catches don't give a fuck about their partner's promiscuity or lack thereof in the past either.

The main reason why that kind of thing might matter to some men goes back to (as I already said) treating women like a commodity, a thing to be owned. I don't want to be around that kind of man, and none of the women I know of do either. Even the extremely kinky Master/slave couples I know, their slave is a thing to be treasured, and their sex positivity a blessing and source of happiness.

Well.. A catch? That depends who you're asking. What's a good job? I'd say 100-150k+ P.A qualifies as good, for a middle aged man.

Oh so you've asked the high quality men in your surroundings what their view on promiscuity is? Interesting.

No, it goes back to value. A high partner count for women is considered low value. That's the harsh truth