Does He Like Me??? HELP!!!

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Spike07, Sep 20, 2007.

  1. Spike07

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    Hey!:smile:

    So. . . .the fair is in town and on one of the rides, The Waltzers, is this 17 year old guy on there (really fit!:wink:) and he kept on spinning my seat and the ride stopped n he was talkin to me and was tellin me 2 cum c him everyday before he goes! And he asked for my number and said I was a cutie. DOES HE LIKE ME???
     
  2. Eva

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    Ask him.
     
  3. wldhoney

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    Sorry, Spoke07, but if he is 17 he is considered to be a minor.
     
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    In UK the legal age is 16+ wldhoney
     
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    OMG Wildhoney..give it a rest. He may be a minor in the USA (where they are so prudish and sex-phobic, it's a wonder they even have a younger generation), but in most parts of the world his age is not a problem. In Canada, the age of consent is 14 ... In the Netherlands, it is 13.... I get annoyed when Americans assume that just because their antiquated laws prohibit normal relationships, it applies to the whole world.
    ...and don't get me started on American Foreign policy, which, I think, is an oxymoron!
     
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    Spike07... take him up on his invitation, hang out a bit with him, ask him to go for a coffee, and when you are comfortable, ask him if he is interested (He already knows that you are!! Good luck and keep us posted [evil grin]
     
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    ^^^lesmeljos^^^

    Thanks for helpin me out!:) The thing is, he's only in town until Satarday and then hes leaving and I'm not sure what to so:(
     
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    Calm down, les. It has nothing to do with that..... my understanding is that LPSG has to follow the laws of the US, therefore a minor being discussed on LPSG is against those laws.

    It's why even celebrities under 18 can't be discussed here in a way that might be interpreted as sexual. Don't assume to know what my personal opinion is unless I state it, please.

    Edited to add: And let me add that I didn't put down Spike07, unlike your little spat. Where I come from a 13 year old being cruised by someone over 18 is considered child rape, so every where is different, yes?
     
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    Well duh! Yes he likes you.
     
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    There is no law against discussing such things, just in displaying pornographic images of minors. What Rob_E decides is acceptable in addition to that law is up to him. Each state has individual laws about what the AOC is and these range from 14 to 18. It also sounds like, and forgive if I'm wrong, Spike is very close in age.

    And yeah Spike, he's definitely interested in you. Make that your favorite ride at the fair! :wink:
     
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    First, Wldhoney, I am calm!
    Secondly, I understand that we may not discuss sexual content of anyone under the age of 18 (due, as you state, to US law), but there was nothing sexual in the original post; it merely asked if the 17 year old was interested in him. To make the olympic leap into the "sexual zone" is unfair.
    Thirdly, you make another olympic leap: cruising is child rape... I do not believe that this is true... harrassment, touching, etc., may lead to rape, but 'cruising'. I doubt that even the over-zealous American system of jurisprudence would consider 'cruising' to be RAPE!! However, I stand to be corrected.

    Finally, you state: Don't assume to know what my personal opinion is unless I state it, please.

    I would never attempt to state your 'personal opinion' for you, and for the record, I did no such thing. In fact, you stated no opinion in your response to Spike07. I merely pointed out that you are the one who went overboard with your reaction. MY opinion is that this type of pseudo-warning is very much the "American way", for the reasons I stated. Btw...how is your opinion anything but 'personal'? Quite intriguing!!

    Thanks for the discourse; it's one of the great things about this site...
     
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    Exactly my point, lesmeljos. First, I purposely stated calm down in response to your "give it a rest". If your going to dish it....

    I threw in my opinion, clarifying that every where is different, after your speel on Americans and our prudish ways, etc. Should I assume that every man in the netherlands is a child rapist because the age of consent is 13 and here that is looked upon as a child? No. The same, in my opinion, goes for your assumptions. Personally, if an adult cruised my 13 year old or my 17 year old, there wouldn't be a hole deep enough for them to hide it. However, I am anything but "prudish". You are the one that took it to the personal level. I simply relplied in the same vein to show the difference between keeping my opinion out of the first post and my next.

    Second, look into other threads regarding minors and discussions on the TOS. There are threads closed for discussing minors in any sexual way and discussions of bannings for such.

    No, the OP did not say anything blatantly sexual. But the need to have the wording "cum" in the post rather than "come" while stating the age of seventeen rather than just no age at all, and the fact that he only has two posts, would make me wonder if it isn't baiting to see if the discussion will head in that direction.

    But by all means.....continue.
     
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    I see now why we're hated all over the world. I for one am greatful. What a panzy. That's my personal opinion.
     
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    Wow this took an unexpected course....
     
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    Went back to the fair tonight and went back on the ride he was on, The Waltzers, and I went on LOADS of times just to see him! :)
     
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    Went back to the fair tonight and went back on the ride he was on, The Waltzers, and I went on LOADS of times just to see him! :)
    Anyway, I went over to the back behind the rides where nobody was for a cigarette break lol and he came out of his carvan (which was just beside me! LUCKY ME!) and started speaking to me and we kissed!!!!!!! :)
    I'm so happy. He gave me his number and I gave him mine and we are meeting up tomorrow before he starts work!
     
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    It's not letting me post right! GRRR!

    ^^^That was meant 2 say:^^^

    Went back to the fair tonight on the ride he was working on, The Waltzers, and I went on LOADS of times just to see him so I'm sure he was loving the attention!

    Anyway, when I got off the ride the first time he smiled at me and he remembered my name! :) So, I went to the back of the fair behind the rides to go for a cigarette when the next thing i see him come out from his caravan!!!

    He came over to me and started talking to me and then we kissed and then we exchanged numbers n were meeting 2morrow b4 he starts work! :)

    YAY! :)
     
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    Can't wait for the update. I love happy endings.
     
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    This is a great thread.
     
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    Oh well. It was fun while it lasted.:redface:
     
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