Wldhoney,
Your attitude is what's wrong with America. It's the seveteen year old doing the cruising. I bet your thirteen and seventeen year olds have cruised you in here along with all their friends. WAKE UP. America thinks teenagers should not have any kiind of sexual thoughts or drives till they're eighteen. No wonder there is so much sexual dysfunction in America. You are so quick to indict the other party a pedophile or preditor.
Oh my gosh!!! You guys need to LAY THE FUCK OFF of Wild Honey! First of all, she is anything but a prude (as her posts easilry prove). She is probably one of the coolest people on this site. Secondly, she is just trying to be responsible. I think its important to keep this site on the up and up and not give crazy conservatives an excuse to further legislate sites like this.
I understand that other people in other parts of the world have a more expansive view of May December relationships. Honey Has also made it perfectly clear that she gets that.
And I owudl say you seriously misunderstand American reservations with teen-adult relationships. I dont think anysensible American thinks of say a 20 something dating a teen as a predator/pedophile. Nor do we expect teens to have no sexual feelings. We just see there being a pretty big difference in emotional maturity between a high schooler and an adult living on their own making adult decisions. Kids making adult decisions is tricky. Kids having fun with other kids(aka teen sex) is expected. You can find emotionally immature people at any age, but I think it is wise to try and keep kids safe from their own stupidity. From personal experience, i know it is more emotionally healthy to learn things gradually and bit by bit rather than trying to grow up too fast or get caught up an dynamic of emotional unequals. NOw that is my personal opinion. Perhaps we can start a whole thread discussing this very issue.
But this is US based site, that must comply with US laws. Shame on any of you who have harassed Honey who is merely trying to encourage the maintenance of those laws thus allowing everyone to enjoy this site.
As for the ACTUAL post. Dude, i have no idea how old you are, so i am just giogn to assume this is all cool. But, man, if you guys are crying at parting after just a few days, you need to slow it down a bit.
I am sure he is wonderful. And you guys have probably talked about so much and shared alot with each other and that is great. This may end up being a really wonderful relationship. BUt remember that you are still in the high endorphin stage of getting to know each other. The whoel thing is exhilirating. Enjoy that. BUt also take it slow. Enjoy the journey.
