Does he like me?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by TyDancingInTheFlames, Jun 22, 2011.

  1. TyDancingInTheFlames

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    Okay, so I've asked my friends and they are divided, so I figure I'd ask many people at once. There's this guy who I like, but I'm unsure if he likes me in return. When we text he doesn't really respond back often, but when we're in person he talks to me all of the time. He'll even invite me to follow him around his workplace while he works if I visit him there. We crossed the personal space zone when he messed with my hair one day and on a later day I messed with his. I'm really not sure what he thinks. Any help or advice is appreciated!!
     
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    Was the messing with the hair thing lingering or just a "noogie" type maneuver?
     
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    He just reached over and lifted my bangs up and let them drop slowly from his fingers.
     
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    Do you know for a fact he's gay? If he is then there is no harm in asking him out.
     
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    I do, in fact, know he is gay. We went out for lunch one day, but where he's in theatre productions, it's kinda hard to get him to do things.
     
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    He likes you! Does he know that your into dudes also? Ask him out. Dinner, Movie, Coffee after that. Take the plunge
     
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    Yes, he knows I like guys. I'm just unsure as to what he's thinking, though. He doesn't text me very often and when he does only for short periods of time. It's weird to me. I'll probably go to his work tonight and visit him. Maybe I'll have something to report back with.
     
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    Some people just don't respond quickly to text or at all to well even for people they like.
     
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    Beleive it or not, Not everyone likes texting.... YOUR RIGHT.

    Make a move and ask him out.
     
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    I understand that not everyone is a texter. So, I asked him to lunch tomorrow and we were all good, until he just texted me to tell me he can't go because of theatre stuff. Should I keep on pressing him to do things or wait for him to ask me now?
     
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    OMG...I have learned a long time ago that I am not telepathic so I have given up trying to figure out what people are thinking. In fact, I don't give a fuck. Just ask the guy out. If he doesn't like you the worst he will say is no. I am sure you have heard the word NO and you still have survived. Yeah, it's that simple.
     
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    Maybe ask if you can bring him lunch to his theatre thing? Then ask him out?
     
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    I actually like the sound of that. I may just do that!
     
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