Does hearing your partner talk dirty in bed make you even more hornier?

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I love dirty talk.

I love cooing the dirtiest filth into a lovers ear while we are fucking.

Yes, yes ,yes. Good dirty talk can make an already great experience into something so much more erotic and thrilling. Hearing an uncensored utterance roll off the tip of her tongue while the cadence of her voice changes as I thrust is just, well, hot.

Bonus pt's for using the word cooing :smile:
 

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I'm with so many here as to it being natural and not forced. Flow. Also depends on what is being said, how it is said and when it is said. Timing can add that extra element of stimuli to take me over the top.

Also it need not restrict itself to the bedroom. A naughty whisper in the ear while in public.. a few playful dirty texts.. even just eye contact with the right energy behind it will definitely switch the power on spot. By the time we are in private, I'm already so wet and ravenous.. ready to consume the delicious build up....

Yep.. A definite yes for me. :)
 
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Dirty talk can be fun depending on the type of sex! Especially towards the end of rougher, more athletic sex.

But just hearing natural moans does it for me. I remember sucking off this IMPOSSIBLY gorgeous guy, and the way he started to moan (almost a low growl:veryhappy:) and run his nails over my bare back just set something off in me! Totally put me over the edge. I suddenly took one look up at him (almost certainly with a wild look in my eyes lol) pounced onto the poor guy's lap :redface:!

So vocal, but not necessarily verbal for me.:biggrin1:
 

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Dirty talk can be fun depending on the type of sex! Especially towards the end of rougher, more athletic sex.

But just hearing natural moans does it for me. I remember sucking off this IMPOSSIBLY gorgeous guy, and the way he started to moan (almost a low growl:veryhappy:) and run his nails over my bare back just set something off in me! Totally put me over the edge. I suddenly took one look up at him (almost certainly with a wild look in my eyes lol) pounced onto the poor guy's lap :redface:!

So vocal, but not necessarily verbal for me.:biggrin1:

Indeed!! It is so much more pleasant when someone expresses themselves. Stealthy ninja sex should be reserved for instances where sounds NEED to be non-existent. ;)
 

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The more she/he talks, the dirtier she/he is, the more gross and imaginative she/he is the harder I get, I really need dirty talking.
 

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My partner usually doesn't talk dirty while we're having sex. However, when she does, it gets me going even more. It might be because she doesn't do it very often, so it sounds sincere when she does. On the rare occasions when she says something filthy like "I want you to just destroy me" I know she legitimately wants me to fuck her as hard as I can. That turns me on. It probably wouldn't have the same effect if she said stuff like that all the time.
 

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Do you both talk dirty in bed? Does it intensify your orgasm? Or does talking dirty during sex turn you off?

I can't say that being verbally graphic in bed really intensifies my orgasms, but done right, it makes getting there even more interesting!
 

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Do you both talk dirty in bed? Does it intensify your orgasm?

Or does talking dirty during sex turn you off?

Dirty talk can be a major enhancer of the sexual experience. But much like the sexual act(s) themselves, that is very dependent on chemistry, "talent", and, for me at least, keeping to the classier side of things.
 
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Do you both talk dirty in bed? Does it intensify your orgasm?

Or does talking dirty during sex turn you off?

It's like fake moaning and groaning.....times two. I have to agree with one poster above. If she has to talk dirty and moan and groan to get me off either I'm not doing my job or it's all she's got.

It would be a huge turnoff. I like the sound of heavy breathing.
 
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Nah. Neither Remington or I are into it. Our mouths are usually otherwise occupied, or I'm too breathless/moaning/etc to speak.
 
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It most definetly makes me fuck harder and makes me horny to hear her talk dirty to me. She at times is not comfortable but I ask her to try and please me like i please her. I love to hear her talk dirty to me.
 
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I would say the time leading up to "heading to the bedroom" talking dirty really gets me going.... during I love love love the sounds of enjoyment!!! Oh my, its getting me going just thinking about it.
 

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Do you both talk dirty in bed? Does it intensify your orgasm?

Or does talking dirty during sex turn you off?
My girl friend loves sexting me at work to get me hot and bothered. I try to do the same but as a male it shows more when we are excited in dress pants.