Does How You Feel About Your Partner Intensify Your Orgasms?

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We've all seen the 'does longer/thicker/curve/day or the week/etc. make it feel better'' type questions... and the wide variety of responses from the women here. But I have something similar, but also different to ask...

Does how much you like/love your partner actually make your orgasms feel more intense? Orgasms are always nice, but do you cum harder when you care deeply about the person you are with at the moment?

I'm not a woman, but my answer is unequivocally 'yes'. The partners who have helped me experience my best orgasms are all women I was in love with. I suspect that my brain applies a +50% factor to orgasmic sensations when I love the women I'm inside of independent of anything else. Do any of you experience something similar?
 
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Not for me, no. Some o the best sex I have had was with casual partners. Friends w benefits.
 
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When I got together with the Guitarist, we’d known each other at a slight distance for 11 years. The odd email ot text while we navigated the relationships we were in. Spans of quiet.
We’d never really looked at one another in a physical way. We each thought the other attractive, and intelligent, but it hadn’t gone further.

But the key switched the lock, and it was one of those lightning moments at first kiss.
Later, when we managed time alone, everything was like coming home. Comfortable and somehow familiar. Matched.

While I might have previous memories of more intense times, they stand out in their rarity, in the relationship overall. we have a healthy sea swell within an ocean of compatibility.
Even when one of us isn’t up to sweaty snugglebunnies, we can still tease enough to show the spirit is willing as the flesh is weak.
Are our times more intense because of the connection? I think so.

He has spoken of his wilder days. (He was a healthy, attractive man in his 20s while I was in grade school) He once said that it was like a very good restaurant meal. You remember a highlight, and maybe the clumsy service.
 
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For me yes most definitely, just a mental thing I guess. My husband is a particularly attentive and good lover and knows my body extremely well so I guess that goes a long way too but my feelings do certainly have an impact on the quality and strength of my orgasams.
 
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If you had asked me this a couple years ago, I would have 100% agreed with you. The last few years, I haven't had a really, REALLY deep connection but I've still had good sex. Granted, I think some of those great orgasms came during the initial infatuation stage where I couldn't get enough of them and before the yellow or red flags of their personality started flying.

I hope to find the deep connection again soon.
 
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The way I cum with him is not something I can compare to any other orgasm I've ever had, even solo. I credit that to the fact that I care about him the way I do. He's fucking great at fucking.

I've had great casual sex. None of it is remotely close to the sex I have with my fella. If he and I ever part ways, for whatever reason, there's almost no way I could see myself ever having that kind of sex again. Not because of the way his penis feels inside me, but because of the way his mind and heart connected with mine outside of our sex life. The way he smells, has always smelled.. no one will ever smell like him.

Our sex life started 16 years ago. There have been bumps in the road, but I can truly say that it has only gotten better over the years because of everything we've been through. My attraction to him has only grown, and I hope he feels the same for me. I assume he does, based on his actions.