does it bother you if another guy checks you out

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I guess I'm a compliment whore, but I'm not picky where it comes from. Kissing my ass will get you every where.
 

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str8 guys, does it bother you if another guy checks you out? (as in thinks your attractive, not sizing you up for a fight) do you take it as a compliment, does it feed your ego or does it fuel your hate?

I take it as a compliment.
It is cool being considered attractive, I would like it.
 

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Any compliment is an ego booster and makes one feel good. Too often people do not compliment and the loss is theirs. What harm is done by saying something nice about another person?
 

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There are complements and there are complements.

Nice Shoes, Nice Suit, Nice Car, Awsum shirt, Awsum leather bag
All are Ok

However those jeans make your package look huge is kind of over the line, unless I know you well. Living in NY I have had many copmplements from men, some subtle and some flat out dirt stuff. I just say thanks and it does not bother me.
 

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str8 guys, does it bother you if another guy checks you out? (as in thinks your attractive, not sizing you up for a fight) do you take it as a compliment, does it feed your ego or does it fuel your hate?

I have a excellent peripheral vision. Makes it easy to catch people checking me out. :tongue:


feeds my ego

hehe
 
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At this point a compliment from anywhere would be nice! :)
But seriously, in my slimmer days I've been complimented and approached; it doesn't bother me at all. A compliment is a compliment, and unwelcome advances are unwelcome regardless of gender.
 

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I take it as a compliment, but if he tries to get physical he'll be in deep shit.

For the record, I'm not a fan of touchy feely women either. Personal space is sacred.
 

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Most of the times I've been approached it's been by guys who wouldn't take no for answer. Not that it's a frequent problem.

My wife tends to notice before I do. "Did you see that guy checking you out?" And I say, "Huh?"
 

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No, I doubt I have ever noticed. If they do it persistently I might be hassled however.
 
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Just last night,I had a guy walk past me and say "nice ass". At my age,I'll take a compliment when I get it.