Does it bother you ?

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  1. tulsabyla

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    Does it bother you when someone asks you "Can I see it"?
     
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    If it's a guy asking, yes. If it's a woman, and my wife doesn't mind, no.
     
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    love to show mine as long as over 18 and I see yours too
     
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    It doesn't happen often enough for me to feel strongly about it, one way or the other.
     
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    show you mine if i get to play with your,
     
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    usually just asked how big it is. and that has not happened for years. had a few gals slip a hand down my pants in a crowded bar. bedded all of them. so they must like what they find in there.
     
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    Only when it's over and over once I've politely expressed that it's not something that I really want to do at that time. Other than that, I think it's kind of flattering :smile:
     
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    actually I long for such a request! but this rarely happens... btw my ask is NO :D
     
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    No ones ever asked
    Wonder why?
    (starting to get pissed off now re no one asking?)

    Still never stopped me from asking
    "Can I see it"?
    enz
     
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    after being asked for almost 26 years..(i'm 38 years old now)i'm used to it.
    but i don't pull it out in public like i did back when i was younger..LOL!!
     
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    Not at all, I take it as a compliment.
     
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    lol na, i mean unless ur a complete stranger. If were friends, or if I like you, Its a plus, my old friends seen mine before because of my ex. They all told me it was a good size and I was like you coulda just asked me instead of having other people show u lol
     
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    i'm been asked a couple of times by both sexes. as long as it was not in public i showed them and took it as a compliment. i would still do it but nobody asks anymore.
     
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    yer, why not, they must be keen to ask in the first place and as long as i can see yours to. work's both way's.
     
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    Never been asked. Not sure what I'd do if I was!
     
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    I've never been asked to show it. Didn't have to. Was involved with a very active hot tub group where everyone was naked. I liked to serve the drinks which put my cock at eye level for the gals sitting in the hot tub. They all knew what I was packing.
     
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    If by "bother" you mean "make you extremely hard" then yes! I wish somebody would ask me that. It happened once in front of my gf, so no dice. I didnt think that really happened...
     
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    Nope. Don't mind it at all.
     
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    I'd be bothered if they didn't.
     
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    Ummm...don't know abou the others. But when I am in the situation that would lead to someone asking 'Can I see it?'...I'm usually quite ameanable?!

    I mean it's not like one gets asked this question in the chicken livers aisle at the local Morrisons!??!?

    Am I missing something!?!
     
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