I don't know if it feels better, but with my wife and me, the one on top is dominating the action. and as the years go by, she is more on top then she used to be, I have a bad lower back. but it is not bad ALL the time. she still likes me to get on top, slowly work my way in, slow stroke, rub my head against her clit, and then go full deep, as fast as I can, as deep as I can. this usually gets her off, then she rolls on top, goes real slow. she says she really appreciates my girth and can feel my length better when she is on top. she has never complained about my length, but I think she appreciates the small amount I did gain from PE. she works the tempo up, with her vagina reallly grabbing my cock. we usually cum together, and her second orgasm is more intense than the first. she rolls off and her legs quiver for several minutes, while we cuddle, kiss, say sweet things, and she caresses my cock.
If I am lucky, she cleans me off, sucks me til hard and we do it again. life's tough.