Does it matter or not?

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Your in a very good positive relationship. Everything for the most part is awesome in your current relationship. However when it comes to sex your relationship is 'ok' but your ex was just electric in the bedroom and much better than your current partner. Does / can this current relationship last if your ex partner is much better than your current partner?
 

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Clearly sex no matter how good wasn't enough to keep the person with the now EX-partner.

There is more than just the great/bad/so-so sex. If all other components are working there's still hope. Sometimes it's just a matter of teaching the new/current partner what is wanted when it comes to sex. Many are eager learners.
 

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^^ +1 ^^

Anyone who thinks that sexual performance outweighs all other aspects of a human relationship, is part of the problem, not part of the cure ...

Everything can be changed and improved, in time, with proper attention, research, co-operation, and communication ...

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