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I have an unusually large cock, almost 9 inches long dorsal and a good 6 1/4 at the base, it still seems pretty big on me, I am 6 ft 6, and also, I have 36 inch waist, 46 inch chest and 16 inch bicep. Anyway, my question --- do you think I deserve a "hotter" partner because of this? How come, in real life (not fantasy life or LPSG life), this never seems to amount to anything... Certainly it makes some difference? I have had an attractive model ask me once, what my shoe size was (it's 15 1/2 or 16, which is well over 4 standard deviations...), but she wasn't that interested in me. In real life, I tend to like older women better, have since I was quite young, they seem smarter, nicer, and more generous.

I kinda wish women would be more upfront about this, at least on these forums, if they really care about it, say so. Seems like only guys ask me in real life, and often, they aren't even gay....

Johnny77
 
I'm not sure what point you're getting at personally. Do you think you deserve a more attractive partner because you think you're attractive, or do you think women aren't as upfront about how important your… penis size(?) is to them?
 
My experience is that woman only care about the size of your penis if you hurt them with it, or, if they're mad at you.
 
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It's being at the right place at the right time. If you feel you deserve a more attractive chick than your last one or whatever reason then it can happen. The law of average my freind. I'm single and i blow chicks off alot. I get blown off to, when i ask a chick out. Lots of times I get blown off. It's the law of average man. Some day the chick of your dreams will say yes to you. Mark my words.
 
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Johnny77 said:
.. Seems like only guys ask me in real life, and often, they aren't even gay....

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Guys are all hung up on cock size, generally speaking women are not.

There certainly are women out there who value a large dick quite highly (no small number of whom are LPSG members) but in my experience they are definitely in the minority. I've met more women who were attracted to me because of my height (same as yours) than because they thought (or knew) that I had a large dick. I have met and had sex with a number of women who were attracted to me because of my genital size (knowing about it either from word of mouth or by our meeting at a clothing optional venue) and it made for some great recreational sex, but no lasting relationships. All the women in my life who really meant a lot to me learned of my size only after our relationship was well under way.

So, in my experience, it all really boils down to what you're looking for and wanting. If you really want a size queen just realize that they are members of a small minority and a good way to find one is by hanging out nude at a clothing optional venue. If you're looking for a meaningful relationship above all else then put your size aside and go about it like everyone else.
 
Dear John(ny),

I'm not sure how old you are, can't really tell. But SilverTip made a few good points. Guys seem way more interested in the size of their cock than women do (generally speaking).

It really is difficult to generalize here. Yes, there are some women who's first experiences were with some very large men. I would tend to think that they will look for well endowed partners for relationships. There are some women who just want to have sex with well endowed men, but don't want the relationship. I've seen posts here from some women who have the same trouble finding "hot, hung, and NICE" men.

Perhaps it is the attitude that is missing (on both parts?). Now I'm not trying to say that all hot and well endowed men have bad attitudes. I know better. I know many who have the entire package. They also know what they want in life and are very confident that eventually they will get what they are seeking.

I can also tell by your post that you have quite a "hot" body yourself, not just the "package below" and you are looking for someone who compliments your body style?
I believe there are as many vain women in the world as there are men. Surely you can find one, if that is what you are seeking.

Remember this: Your looks, body and build are only temporary. Your mind, attitude, and heart are the most important parts of your character. Win a woman with those things first..... because to most women, those are way more important that your cock size, chest size and bicep size.

I hope this helps. Good luck
 
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I have an unusually large cock, almost 9 inches long dorsal and a good 6 1/4 at the base, it still seems pretty big on me, I am 6 ft 6, and also, I have 36 inch waist, 46 inch chest and 16 inch bicep. Anyway, my question --- do you think I deserve a "hotter" partner because of this? How come, in real life (not fantasy life or LPSG life), this never seems to amount to anything... Certainly it makes some difference? I have had an attractive model ask me once, what my shoe size was (it's 15 1/2 or 16, which is well over 4 standard deviations...), but she wasn't that interested in me. In real life, I tend to like older women better, have since I was quite young, they seem smarter, nicer, and more generous.

I kinda wish women would be more upfront about this, at least on these forums, if they really care about it, say so. Seems like only guys ask me in real life, and often, they aren't even gay....

Johnny77
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Lol, are you actually being serious?? So you think you deserve better looking girlfriends because you say you have a big dick?? Truly bizarre. Some guys here are absolutely priceless with their attitude.

And yet another guy who seems to be 'gods gift to women' in both looks and cock size but has no pics. :rolleyes:
 
lady4u2 said:
Lol, are you actually being serious?? So you think you deserve better looking girlfriends because you say you have a big dick?? Truly bizarre. Some guys here are absolutely priceless with their attitude.

And yet another guy who seems to be 'gods gift to women' in both looks and cock size but has no pics. :rolleyes:
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LOL girl (bingo)... don't you know? If you got it... why flaunt it? :tongue::tongue::tongue:

Oh I'm not sure what his point is but I think it is that he deserves a hotter girl (???) because not only does he have such a large penis but also he's hotter'n hell in all other parts of his body. (Sounds like he just described adonnis to me) ... "swoon"

But for real... Mr OP will get what you deserve. Probably a super hot chick with the same attitude he has... and when she finds a hotter guy than him she will dump his ass. (Because we know he's gonna be scoping out hotter chicks too.)

I often wonder what happens to these guys and girls with this attitude when they hit their 50's and all of a sudden get crow's feet around the eyes, and mother nature starts taking over... :wink:
 
My point of view, no it doesn't matter. The more you think about what a women think about, the more fucked up you're gonna be. Ya gotta take the good with the bad and keep on moving forward. that means you'll be leaving some behind. The last thing you should care about is what anyone else thinks...unless you are married or have kids. That's the only exception. Shit once females figure that you could give a fuck, they probably will all fall in your lap like you want them to. Don't hold your breath though.
 
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Betty_Cocker said:
Dear John(ny),

Remember this: Your looks, body and build are only temporary. Your mind, attitude, and heart are the most important parts of your character. Win a woman with those things first..... because to most women, those are way more important that your cock size, chest size and bicep size.

I hope this helps. Good luck
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This is one of the wisest answers I have seen on LPSG in a long time.
 
I'm not 100% sure I understand the question. I guess it's: do you "deserve" to be getting hotter women than the ones you've been getting?

If that's the question, then I'd say it answers itself. You get what you deserve. If what you're getting is women that are "7" or "8", then apparently that's what you deserve (based on the whole package, not just the attributes you described). But keep trying, you may do better. And yes, all other things being equal, having a huge cock and a ripped bod and being tall do increase your odds of getting with hotter women.
 
It all begins with physical attraction for most people. However, you can always attract women by your cheerful attitude, neatness, your height, among other things. Without seeing your picture, i think i will be gravitated to you because of your height. It also depends on how you interact.
 
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