Just my experiences and opinions. Take it as you will. Most men want a bigger penis.(If not all) Most women want large breast.(I prefer small ones for some reason) Why? Will it make sex better? In most cases the answer is no! It seems most men think a bigger package will give a woman more pleasure. Its just not that simple! Knowing how to please a women is where most men are lacking! All the women Ive been with have had multiple orgasms. Most of them have never experienced that before.(only one IIRC) About 1/3 of them would squirt on occasion. This was before I learn how to make them do it too. Most of them had been with MUCH larger guys before. So if I'm on the low side of average size, why has every one of them came back for more? Years later even. The GF I had before I went to college waited 4 years for me to come back. Damn sure not my looks!:wink: Still feel bad about the way it ended with her. (tip: Don't start fucking you best friend. Even if it great! You will lose a friend when the lust ends.) First night I was with my wife she had more orgasms than she had her whole life. She was not picky in her younger days either. She had a guy almost twice my size but told me she would only have one orgasm while having sex with him. ONCE she had two! Thats just sad! Dated him for more than a year but left him for me the the very next day.(so she says ) My roommate at he time had dated her in high school. So the day after we hooked up he says to me "Thats some sloppy pussy isn't it?". I laugh and say "Hit the right spots and its a vise till the sun come up!". He had her before her wild college days too. He moved out shortly after she moved in. LOL! Some women just go crazy once they leave home and she was one of them. Anyway, she tells me he was bigger then me too and most then men she has been with have been bigger than me.(probably all of them, shes just being nice) Some women are built for it others are not. Usually the women with large /wide hips have more room inside to accommodate more size. Not always true though. Was with a very skinny little(4'9") women before that was huge. Go figure! Things sure changed after my wife had kids thats for sure. Can hold 3 of me easily once she gets warmed up. She wont do kegels either. Does this change things? Not for her anyway. I can still make her squirt and have more orgasms in 30 minutes than I have all year.(thats just not fair!) I have a hard time having an orgasm on occasion but it doesn't bother me cause I know what feels good to me and will get me off quick. Just takes a little know how and creativity. Some of her toys are just huge but she has yet asked me to use one on her. Even when I pull one out after a while she just wants me only. The simple facts: -All people have a different shape a size...find one that fits your size. -All women can take more than what you're packing sooner or later. Its normal. -The womens g-spot is only 2-3" inside of her so 4" is enough to give here pleasure till she is satisfied. -Hitting the cervix directly is painful for most women.(especially if they have a IUD) Learn the anatomy of both of you. -There are other spots besides the g-spot that can give a woman the big O! Some require a long penis others do not. -Girth rules! Ask any woman. This is because most of the nerve endings are in the first 3". -A woman is only as good in bed as the man is at pleasing them!!! If shes not getting off or it feels lifeless and big...its the mans fault! Even after a child it can be tight for a while. -The size of a penis has its advantages and disadvantages. Learn how to use what you have a be happy with the way you are. A 10" penis just thrusted all the way in without warming her up will not feel good to her. -Women like foreplay. Get use to it. Learn what makes them tick! -Happy wife equals happy life! If she is not happy... she will make sure you're not.(very important!) -Don't base a relationship on sex alone. It wont last! -Open up to each other and express you dreams and desires. Don't hold back even if its something you know they will not go along with. -There will always be someone bigger than you! Someone is smaller too! -Sex becomes less and less important with age. The desire starts to decrease in men before women. -Women would rather have a guy with a good personality that they can talk to and laugh with rather than a smart ass with a big dick. -Don't waste time worrying about the size of your penis. Be comfortable with the way god made you. Be confident being naked around other people. If you have a complex, try a nude beach and you will see that you're not much different from everyone else. Notice which men she is looking at too. Its surprising what makes them look twice! Its not the penis size either. -Try new things with your partner, but don't force it on them. Make them comfortable with it first. Word to the wise: -DON'T TRUST A WOMAN WITH YOUR MONEY! No offense but I learned the hard way. Even after my father made this mistake 3 times. Two of which I witnessed. There are some exceptions to these general guidelines. Some people just want more and like things to change. Which is fine. Its just not the majority. If you're gay... I have no clue. Never had a desire to touch a man. If it makes you happy, roll with it. Life is too short to be unhappy and spend countless hours to gain an inch or two. Hope this helps someone. My 2 cents.