Does it seem that gay men like men more than women do?

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do you see peahens flashing their tails and strutting?

Nothing to add regarding the intention of this thread, but Yes, Peahens do in fact flash their tails and strut. So unimpressive it's almost funny, but they do quite often :wink:
 

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not really, a man still wants to have sex with a woman because of the pleasure it gives him.

This^
Feels good man.


Also happens to be the reason why I would rather masturbate in front of a computer than waste my time attempting to get to know somebody.

Instant gratification.
 

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if it's just about feeling good physically and not about your urges, why aren't all straight guys just having gay sex instead?


because having sex with gay men doesn't make straight men feel good physically?
This^
Feels good man.


Also happens to be the reason why I would rather masturbate in front of a computer than waste my time attempting to get to know somebody.

Instant gratification.


Same here. I've gotten sick and tired of the dating game and all the bullshit involved. Sometimes you just want to bust a nut. Most Women make you navigate a maze just to get there.
 

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so it's not just about it physically feeling good, it's about a biological urge to fuck specifically women, which you cannot conveniently switch off when logic tells you it would be the easiest option?

thank you for clearing that up.
 

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where is the evolutionary push to select for more promiscuous women? unless promiscuous women start breeding a lot more than the rest of us then we aren't going to rapidly evolve in that direction as a species.

Actually, the science demonstrates that humans and other hominids are promiscuous in both sexes...however the nature of this promiscuity is that it is silent, or hidden from other partners. In what appear to be "monogamous" pairs the female will engage in extra-pair copulation both to conceive as well as to protect her offspring. If you observe the sexual habits of many hominids you see that a female will often have a male companion as her primary companion in a manner that appears to be monogamous, however she will mate with other males in her tribe, as well as with her "monogamous" mate when she is not ovulating, which serves to reduce infanticide by competitive males since they will be unsure if the offspring she eventually has is theirs. When she is ovulating guess what, it's not much better...now her desire to mate with a male other than her partner is greatest, and she will often leave the safety of her own group, and find a male in another tribe, and mate with him. This is female biology, it's not just the males that have an interest in extra-pair mating.

Studies on modern women further support the findings in nature. Researchers observe that as a woman nears ovulation, the type of male she is attracted to will shift away from the kinder, rounder faced, more fatherly type that she has at home and towards the sharp and prominent features of the large jawed, testosterone filled "stud." Her fantasies will tend to shift, her skirt will get shorter, her dance moves more provocative, her flirtation with other men will increase, her voice becomes sexier and higher pitched and her skin glows, and even her scent becomes subconsciously more attractive to male, and her desire to go out on the town will increase significantly...as will her desire to leave her boyfriend or husband at home.

These aspects of our biology are also observed in women after a few years of being paired with the same mate. Even the most desirable man becomes uninteresting after a few years, people find themselves in sexless marriages saying things like "I love him, but I just don't need sex anymore" though the man usually still desires his wife! It's sad, but it's not at all uncommon.

She complains about her "low libido" or her "hectic work schedule" or "raising the kids" but the fact is, her libido isn't dead, and if she WANTED sex, she'd have the time for it....she needs a new partner to rekindle her passion.

That is the biology....but so what, I'm a highly monogamous man, a romantic, more than any of the women I've ever been with (one called me "Too Disney." Though I have a very high drive, I'm not simply a beast driven by desire to breed to any available women, and of course women aren't either...we can choose our path. There are always individuals who will be different from what simple biology dictates - but to deny the reality of our biology, or to feel guilty for it is simply foolish. That ovulating women, in the short skirt at the club, who told her husband she was having a "girls night" might not act on her desires other than flirting, in fact, she may not even really be in touch with them (or willing to admit them to herself?), but chances are, she's got them...such is the life of a primate.
 
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so it's not just about it physically feeling good, it's about a biological urge to fuck specifically women, which you cannot conveniently switch off when logic tells you it would be the easiest option?

thank you for clearing that up.


Wrong. It is about it feeling good physically. Straight men will not achieve the same level of sexual satisfaction being with gay men as they would if they were with women.
 

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i didn't say we were (in general) monogamous.
promiscuity is not a set number. it is open to personal interpretation. i would not describe a woman who slept with four or five men as either monogamous or promiscuous. would you?

your research does not imply that women would be undiscerning, screwing whoever showed up.
being selective about who you risk breeding with does not have to mean limiting yourself to just one.
 

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straight men will not be as satisfied getting sucked off by men, not because the physical sensations are any different, but because their urges are purely for women so they are mentally turned off by the thought of fucking men.

much like women's urges may turn them off the idea of multiple, casual partners.
 
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I've noticed that gay men seem more attracted to men than women do. Rarely will you see women browsing chat sites and sending messages to men to have sex, yet you see this all the time with gay men. Gay men actively pursue other men more than women pursue men, and they seem way more interested in men than women are. I swear the universe played a sick joke on us straight men by giving us such a weak counterpart as the human female.

Yes, its true. Men for men is best.
 

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I've noticed that gay men seem more attracted to men than women do. Rarely will you see women browsing chat sites and sending messages to men to have sex, yet you see this all the time with gay men. Gay men actively pursue other men more than women pursue men, and they seem way more interested in men than women are. I swear the universe played a sick joke on us straight men by giving us such a weak counterpart as the human female.


There also are a lot of straight men who like, in nonsexual ways, other men more than they like women. Notice how many straight guys, married or not, spend as much or more time with their male friends than with their wives, girlfriends, etc. And many straight men simply don't like women for anything other than sex. That's the sick joke. (As a gay man, I'm extremely glad that I like other men for more than just sex.)
 

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I've noticed that gay men seem more attracted to men than women do. Rarely will you see women browsing chat sites and sending messages to men to have sex, yet you see this all the time with gay men. Gay men actively pursue other men more than women pursue men, and they seem way more interested in men than women are. I swear the universe played a sick joke on us straight men by giving us such a weak counterpart as the human female.

Back so soon? Why I'm stunned, shocked. Yes, I figured it out.

Now stop your damn stereotyping.
 

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Yes, its true. Men for men is best.

That makes me sad. Men for men is best? Couldn't you cut us sick joke/weak women some slack and say that for some men, a man is best? I didn't realize you didn't like us straight women.:confused:

Some of us have been able to make some men quite happy.

As to the OP - the gay men can salivate over him, and be welcome to him. He's on my ignore.
 
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That makes me sad. Men for men is best? Couldn't you cut us sick joke/weak women some slack and say that for some men, a man is best? I didn't realize you didn't like us straight women.:confused:

Sorry LaFemme, I forgot to use the emoticon of sarcasm. :wink:
 

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That makes me sad. Men for men is best? Couldn't you cut us sick joke/weak women some slack and say that for some men, a man is best? I didn't realize you didn't like us straight women.:confused:

Some of us have been able to make some men quite happy.

As to the OP - the gay men can salivate over him, and be welcome to him. He's on my ignore.

I can safely say I'm comfortable in the role of sexual aggressor/initiator. :wink:
 

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I can say this thread is quite funny. I have a crazy high sex drive and I am not shy at pursuing a partner that i would want. I am in a monagomous relationship but it is my boyfriend who isn't interested and hasn't came over in over a month. Maybe I should try gay men?
 

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I can say this thread is quite funny. I have a crazy high sex drive and I am not shy at pursuing a partner that i would want. I am in a monagomous relationship but it is my boyfriend who isn't interested and hasn't came over in over a month. Maybe I should try gay men?


Maybe. But perhaps it's your BF who is trying gay men and/or should.
 

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Men are more interested in sex, women are more interested in relationships.

I'd much rather have a relationship than sex, at least right now, that's how I feel, but I know where I look and how I think, and I think about sex and men often, that doesn't consume me or makes my day less productive but it's something that definitely crosses my mind often. I know a sentence can't define everyone, but it's a reality, women want a lot more than man, and when a men comes online he also has something else in mind, like jerking off 3 times a day.