Does it seem that gay men like men more than women do?

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I've noticed that gay men seem more attracted to men than women do. Rarely will you see women browsing chat sites and sending messages to men to have sex, yet you see this all the time with gay men. Gay men actively pursue other men more than women pursue men, and they seem way more interested in men than women are. I swear the universe played a sick joke on us straight men by giving us such a weak counterpart as the human female.

Gay guys treat other guys as a sex object. Even if the other guy is straight.


Just because I have DSL does not mean I will use them for that. Oh just because they are red does not mean I am turned on by you , since they are always red. :tongue:
 

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I've noticed that gay men seem more attracted to men than women do. Rarely will you see women browsing chat sites and sending messages to men to have sex, yet you see this all the time with gay men. Gay men actively pursue other men more than women pursue men, and they seem way more interested in men than women are. I swear the universe played a sick joke on us straight men by giving us such a weak counterpart as the human female.

I was actually going to post a well thought out response, until I read your last sentence....

Man, what a downer... I don't think I am even capable, now, of composing a complete thought..... way too weak....and I'm sure it would be easily dismissed~ :rolleyes:
 

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I love men: cute men, well-hung men, kind hearted men, intelligent men, educated men, tall men.
 

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I've noticed that gay men seem more attracted to men than women do. Rarely will you see women browsing chat sites and sending messages to men to have sex, yet you see this all the time with gay men. Gay men actively pursue other men more than women pursue men, and they seem way more interested in men than women are. I swear the universe played a sick joke on us straight men by giving us such a weak counterpart as the human female.

Bollocks.

And *yawn* to the misogynistic numb-nuttery.
 

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This makes sense, but the fact of contraceptives kills your argument

It doesn't really. Humans are not evolved as you might think. These are actions that have been bread into use. Like the fight and flight system.
These are things that we do subconsciously Also when females pick out a male, they are looking for someone with good genes. That means that they look for summitry.
Also the reason why babies look like their fathers fist is so the male can see his resemblance and accept the child. also did you know that the reason you sway our arms as we walk is because we used to walk in all fours millions and thousands of years ago.

you don’t have to take my word for it. Just look it up.
 

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Men are more interested in sex, women are more interested in relationships.

I've heard it said that "women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place."

A stereotype, of course.

Sometimes it does seem that, perpetuation of the species aside, men would generally be better off with men and women with women because of the way they innately relate to each other.

But the genders also "temper" each other - I've seen in the workplace that if a work team is all one gender (either all men or all women) it can quickly become very unhealthy.

If memory serves correctly, in some cultures, the men lived together and the women lived together and the two really only interacted for purposes of procreation.

We are complicated creatures indeed...
 

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The new woman is not coy, and there is much less social pressure to be demure. The OP just wanted to get a rise out of it. Or a bit more man action, his sexuality currently being undeclared.

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his sexuality has nothing to do with his post. so what if he's gay, straight, asexual.
 

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In that case, I can also call seeing when I open my eyes an instinct.
no, you can't.

but you can call opening your eyes, blinking and following movement with them instinctive.

i suggest the use of google at this point.
i'm far too lazy to provide links.
 

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no, you can't.

but you can call opening your eyes, blinking and following movement with them instinctive.

i suggest the use of google at this point.
i'm far too lazy to provide links.

Breathing is controlled by the respiratory centre in the brainstem, with hypercapnic (and some acidotic) drive, and with hypoxic drive from the carotid and aortic bodies when the respiratory centre ceases to respond to persistent hypercapnia in respiratory failure.

I don't expect you to know that.

However, to call breathing an instinct is monumentally dim. Instinct refers to behaviour. QED.
 
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To answer the OP's question yes and it's not even close.

For example, on Craiglist in my area in the men4men relationship section there are currently 4 1/2 pages worth of ads posted just for today alone. And it's not even 12:30pm yet!

On the w4m relationship side there isn't even a 1/2 page worth of ads posted today.
 

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To answer the OP's question yes and it's not even close.

For example, on Craiglist in my area in the men4men relationship section there are currently 4 1/2 pages worth of ads posted just for today alone. And it's not even 12:30pm yet!

On the w4m relationship side there isn't even a 1/2 page worth of ads posted today.

Perhaps that's because the guys are looking for an oversized willy-warmer, while the women are too busy being attracted to men...

It's a daft question anyway. As if websites tell you anything about this. Men are more likely to engage in risky behaviour than women and are also respond more to visual stimuli in their sexual response than women. Hence the greater use of the net for this kind of thing by men... As Aleksandr Meerkat would say, "Simples!"
 

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Perhaps that's because the guys are looking for an oversized willy-warmer, while the women are too busy being attracted to men...

It's a daft question anyway. As if websites tell you anything about this. Men are more likely to engage in risky behaviour than women and are also respond more to visual stimuli in their sexual response than women. Hence the greater use of the net for this kind of thing by men... As Aleksandr Meerkat would say, "Simples!"

That's about 450 ads compared to 21. And this is just the relationship side. Not casual encounters. Yeah there are tons of misplaced ads asking for sex in the relationship side, but even if you take them out, the numbers are still not comparable.