Does Kissing Make You Gay?

[jonb]

Originally posted by drrionelli@Dec 12 2004, 02:43 PM
Gay is what you are, NOT what you do.

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It all depends: The word or identity "homosexual" didn't exist until the 1860s. The acts did, of course. In most of the ancient world, the inability to be aroused by both sexes was actually considered a sign of impotence.

Among my own ancestors, things were more based on gender role. Men who were effeminate were exclusively homosexual, BUT -- and this is a big but -- their partners weren't. (Being chosen by such a man was actually considered an honor.)

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by jonb+Dec 13 2004, 06:46 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonb &#064; Dec 13 2004, 06:46 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-drrionelli@Dec 12 2004, 02:43 PM
Gay is what you are, NOT what you do.

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It all depends: The word or identity "homosexual" didn&#39;t exist until the 1860s. The acts did, of course. In most of the ancient world, the inability to be aroused by both sexes was actually considered a sign of impotence.

Among my own ancestors, things were more based on gender role. Men who were effeminate were exclusively homosexual, BUT -- and this is a big but -- their partners weren&#39;t. (Being chosen by such a man was actually considered an honor.)

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I&#39;m thinking that to associate oneself with such identities is to loose something of oneself. Before anyone is considered human, they are considered everything BUT human. Gay, strait, man, woman, hetrosexual, homosexual, freak, asshole, idiot, genious ... whatever. All this comes before recignition of the divine within each individual. It&#39;s a bit disgusting, and often self destructive in one way or another, yet each of us has been programmed to think in this manner.

Imma shut up though, before I write a novel.
*gets off soap box*

 

[13788]

Herble: Um , I&#39;m just weird? :blink:

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by headbang8+Dec 13 2004, 06:33 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(headbang8 &#064; Dec 13 2004, 06:33 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-ashlar@Dec 13 2004, 01:29 AM
I&#39;ll mount you on my car&#39;s dashboard and make you my tiki god.

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Tiki god? That is soooooo gay.

But I like the idea of being mounted somewhere.

hb8

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I thought you might

:lol:

 

[13788]

TripodMillenium: Does acting like a straight guy pretty damn often, because I was raised in a straight household, make me straight? Patting another guy&#39;s back when hugging, and making it a short hug? "Going for the kill" in a game I may be playing? The fact I&#39;ve not even considered calling things "fabulous," maybe?

Hell no. I still love the cock, and I still roll my eyes as my bro goes on and on about big tits... :lol:

Oh.... and *hands headbang8 a grass skirt and a lei*

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by TripodMillenium@Dec 19 2004, 03:52 AM

Oh.... and *hands headbang8 a grass skirt and a lei*

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*envisions bits bearly shrouded by lengths of grass and giggles*

Lei ... I&#39;m diggin the subtle innuendo.

 

[madame_zora]

See, I&#39;ve hit a few gold balls in my day but that sure doesn&#39;t make me a golfer&#33; I think sexual orientation can on be based on how you FEEL, not what you do. Kissing a guy, especially when you&#39;re young, is very normal and not much of an indicator of your personal gender preference. Kissing a guy, loving it, dreaming about it, desiring to do it again and again- that might be a good indicator of homosexual leanings, but experimentation is normal for everyone.

 

[hungthick]

anyone that does anything with a guy is gay (kissing, rimming, fucking, sucking) if he has done it more than 2 times. he is at the least bi-sexual. if he doesnt do it again then he is supressing his feelings.

 

[Pappy]

What happened to experimentation ??

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by hungthick@Dec 20 2004, 03:59 AM
anyone that does anything with a guy is gay (kissing, rimming, fucking, sucking) if he has done it more than 2 times. he is at the least bi-sexual. if he doesnt do it again then he is supressing his feelings.

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Hung, I don&#39;t mind someone being opinionated, but don&#39;t you think you should at least know what the fuck you&#39;re talking about first?

 

[soccerfanatic]

Your sexuality has nothing to do with what you and your partner do together, its all about hormones. Even if a guy has sex with another guy, which is a gay experience, it doesn&#39;t necessarily make him gay. Kissing is a very intimate, loving act and he probably felt like he would have been getting romantic with you rather than purely sexual, and he didn&#39;t want this.

having said that, its pretty odd lol, but each to their own

 

[13788]

TripodMillenium:

Originally posted by ashlar+Dec 19 2004, 05:53 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ashlar &#064; Dec 19 2004, 05:53 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-TripodMillenium@Dec 19 2004, 03:52 AM

Oh.... and *hands headbang8 a grass skirt and a lei* 

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*envisions bits bearly shrouded by lengths of grass and giggles*

Lei ... I&#39;m diggin the subtle innuendo.

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Hehe....

You should know about me with my puns and subtle innuendo by now.... :lol:

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by hungthick@Dec 19 2004, 10:59 PM
anyone that does anything with a guy is gay (kissing, rimming, fucking, sucking) if he has done it more than 2 times. he is at the least bi-sexual. if he doesnt do it again then he is supressing his feelings.

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Thick, you will seem less like your stuck-on-stupid if you can acctually supoort your claims with fact.

Please, pick up the cluephone sweetie, it&#39;s ringin&#39; off the hook.

*licks the tip of his nose*

 

[madame_zora]

You mean two&#39;s not the magic number? How about three? THERE&#39;S GOT TO BE A MAGIC NUMBER&#33;&#33; How else can we measure and quantify a person&#39;s self worth??? aaaaaaaaaagggggggghhhhhhhhh&#33;

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Dec 20 2004, 04:23 PM
You mean two&#39;s not the magic number? How about three? THERE&#39;S GOT TO BE A MAGIC NUMBER&#33;&#33; How else can we measure and quantify a person&#39;s self worth??? aaaaaaaaaagggggggghhhhhhhhh&#33;

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By their ability, or inability, to form at least semi intelligent coherant thoughts? Or, we stick with LPSG tradition and use a measuring tape

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by ashlar+Dec 20 2004, 10:07 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ashlar &#064; Dec 20 2004, 10:07 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-madame_zora@Dec 20 2004, 04:23 PM
You mean two&#39;s not the magic number? How about three? THERE&#39;S GOT TO BE A MAGIC NUMBER&#33;&#33; How else can we measure and quantify a person&#39;s self worth??? aaaaaaaaaagggggggghhhhhhhhh&#33;

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By their ability, or inability, to form at least semi intelligent coherant thoughts? Or, we stick with LPSG tradition and use a measuring tape

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Let&#39;s just stick to the tape, easier for the masses to understand.

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by madame_zora+Dec 20 2004, 05:21 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(madame_zora &#064; Dec 20 2004, 05:21 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by ashlar@Dec 20 2004, 10:07 PM
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@Dec 20 2004, 04:23 PM
You mean two&#39;s not the magic number? How about three? THERE&#39;S GOT TO BE A MAGIC NUMBER&#33;&#33; How else can we measure and quantify a person&#39;s self worth??? aaaaaaaaaagggggggghhhhhhhhh&#33;

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By their ability, or inability, to form at least semi intelligent coherant thoughts? Or, we stick with LPSG tradition and use a measuring tape

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Let&#39;s just stick to the tape, easier for the masses to understand.

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Me thinks perhaps your correct. Now if we could just be rid of that inches VS. cenimeters maddness.

 

[jonb]

The metric system is pretty easy to remember: In ascending order, it goes from y to Y.

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by jonb@Dec 20 2004, 05:46 PM
The metric system is pretty easy to remember: In ascending order, it goes from y to Y.

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y to Y??

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by ashlar+Dec 20 2004, 10:58 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ashlar &#064; Dec 20 2004, 10:58 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Dec 20 2004, 05:46 PM
The metric system is pretty easy to remember: In ascending order, it goes from y to Y.

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y to Y??

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why to WHY? perhaps.