If you could be completely objective, do you think that the best sex you have had is with the person you love now or did in the past, rather than someone with whom you just clicked sexually? Yes, with the person I was most recently in love with and still care about, it was the best sex I've ever had, he didn't love me back the way I loved him though as far as I know. We did click extremely well sexually. Makes me wonder with the kind of chemistry we had physically and emotionally if he was holding back and self-sabotaging the situation.
I certainly will miss spending time with him and definitely will more than miss the sex. The first time we even kissed it seemed like we did for over an hour and the entire time I felt intoxicated by him.
And then what if you have loved several people over the years? I have loved one other person before him but the sex was pretty terrible and not that great. We were not very sexually compatible. Mostly, I was horny and he was not.
And finally, would you be honest about this to a partner? Of course, why not? Then again, a lot of people lie. I seem to be weird, in that I don't like to lie and have a hard time doing it.