Does love equal best sex?

[B_VinylBoy]

I would love to be able to say that my best sex has been with someone I loved, however, one or two instances come to mind with people that were beyond exceptional. It's one of those things where you're dating someone and their friend thinks you're cute, however, you don't risk breaking up a friendship for one cheap thrill. Only for the dating the stop and for you to run into that other friend many months down the road. All that built up tension leading to one exhaling moment that simply can't be equaled.

 

[Drifterwood]

What's scarier is that you can buy synthetic versions.

I just bought some in the interest of scientific research.

I shall try to observe the effects objectively and report back :wink:

 

[petite]

Me too. I had depression already and that just sent it though the roof. He also rarely came during sex and didn't like receiving oral. I love to give oral so I was lost - lol.

Glad to hear that you got out. Those paranoid jealous types are scary sometimes.

Yes, they are. Never again! And he was the last guy you'd ever think would be like that. You never can tell.

I just bought some in the interest of scientific research.

I shall try to observe the effects objectively and report back :wink:

Uh-huh, I'm sure! You may just be evil. :tongue:

Using the inhalant version around a woman increases a man's chances of getting laid several ways: it increases his ability to empathize which increases his chances, and it increases her trust, arousal level, and how attractive he looks to her!

 

[Drifterwood]

Uh-huh, I'm sure! You may just be evil. :tongue:

Using the inhalant version around a woman increases a man's chances of getting laid several ways: it increases his ability to empathize which increases his chances, and it increases her trust, arousal level, and how attractive he looks to her!

I think you just increased their sales.

And yes, I am a very bad man. :tongue:

 

[EllieP]

Well, first off I cannot be objective when it comes to sex, sexuality and love. Yes, I have had sex without love but there was still a strong emotional attachment. Maybe that's why it hurt so much afterwards. I'm not real good with one-night-stands, or actually I should I say I never used to be! LOL! He reads this forum, you know!

My best lover is my husband. The emotional attachments are strong, and that sort of gives us a lot of freedom to experiment without fear or distrust. I know he would never hurt me, and he knows I'm the same way. But I will admit to being very apprehensive at first with him. If I wasn't so attracted to him I may have thought twice, but I'm so glad I didn't!

 

[petite]

I think you just increased their sales.

And yes, I am a very bad man. :tongue:

It's a good thing I don't really believe that we're actually chemically controllable. It's a bit more complicated that that. :wink:

The methods that naturally create oxytocin in one's partner are bound to be much more effective than any incredibly expensive synthetically created (or animal extracted) method.

 

[Drifterwood]

There goes the perfume advertising industry. :smile: