Please do not say ask a doctor. The answer from the doc was, " come back if your not pregnant in six months" They have all this stuff on the net about trying to conceive. These are supposed to be legit websites like, BabyCenter | Homepage - Pregnancy, Baby, Toddler, Kids They say regular lube kills and inhibits sperm motility. I was out of the special TTC lube and used Astroglide this morning. my lover came two times and at least two times last night He is a young ( 21) healthy Marine. They also say that if the guy ejaculates often , my lover masturbates 2-3 times a day, that the sperm count can't keep up or something and makes him less fertile . They also say worrying about conceiving causes infertility. I am a total size queen. But now that I'm having all this sex I am sore and I hope I don't have to do this month after month. I would like to know , especially from older ladies-over 35 if they used lube and conceived just fine or had to use special lube. Also if anyone knows about the sperm being enough if the guy ejaculates. often. I am not sure if I lied about my age when I joined. I always use false info because I want to hide my identity. I am of advanced maternal age.