Does Masturbating affect sex drive?

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  1. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    Yeah I've just noticed this lately, but I used to jack it like once or twice a day and would never have a problem getting up during sex quick. But now since I've been WAY more sexually active it seems like if i ever beat off that day or the day before it takes longer for me to get it up with like more foreplay. It hasn't affected me to where I can't get up but I'm jus curious does masturbating affect your sex drive?
     
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    It can decrease arousal response depending on how close to post-orgasm you are trying to get aroused. If you beat off, then walk to go have sex, you may still be in the 'refractory' period. There are tons of factors though. If it becomes a problem, just cut back on beating off and stick to sex.
     
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    When my bf beats off alot he sometimes has trouble getting hard or staying hard. If he hasn't beat off in a day or two he can usually cum more than once. As for me, I can rub myself raw and still have multiples if the sex is good!!
     
  5. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    Lol females get the better deal when it comes to orgasm but thanks for the advice
     
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    Often enhances your Sexual activity .. with me it did
    Often persons J/O prior to activity with a partner..= more staying power
    We all differ with our responses i guess
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    yes it definitely does. i've stopped doing it except for every once in a while in order to increase my sex drive. and believe me, it works. when wifey gets home from work she gets tore up now.
     
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    I would love to help you jack off someday
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  10. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    So I've gone two weeks without masturbating and now my dick is super sensitive lol. Feels like if I even touch it that I'm about to cum
     
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    Maybe find a middle ground here.
    Neither of the extremes seem to be working for you.
     
  12. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    Now it gets up all the time in seconds so I guess there is a plus side
     
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    Time affects your sex drive. It's still there, no problem. But it can take longer to rev up once it's been used.
     
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    If at all..it lowers sex drive because you're releasing accumulated levels of Testosterone.
     
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