I believe what these ladies have conveyed to us here and they have no reason to be all "PC" with the guys on an online forum. In a mostly anonymous forum like this, everyone is free to state their truthful stance on whatever topic without fear of hurting our fragile insecurities.
Some ladies will like 'em large, some won't, and some won't care either way. Same with most of us guys and female physical assets. But, even if a lady had huge tits, curves, etc. and so on, if her personality doesn't vibe with me, then it's just not going to work and I wouldn't force it to work just because of her great body parts. Speaking in general terms here, I think men have allowed the horsesh!t they've seen in the largely fake porn industry to infiltrate their minds to believe that most all ladies demand a massive dong and that anything less is just unacceptable.