Does penis size really matters?

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So i am bisexual, and i prefer being a top, but the thing that bothers me much is that my penis is just 4-4.5 inches long n i do get anxious about dating/sex. So i just wanted to know like is the size like okay/adequate.....
 

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so size will influence what positions can be done. It does not mean that you can not top, (the prostate is maybe 2 inches inside, as long as you aim for the belly button) but being longer does mean that you do not need to be "at the hilt" to reach it.

I'm not trying to shame you. This is far from my intention.
 

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There's nothing you can do about your size, so just own it, learn to use it well.

I like to make the fancy Steakhouse analogy: you may have an excellent piece of meat, but if the sides and dessert are shitty, it's not going to be a good meal. But you can have a small, nice piece of meat and if everything else is executed flawlessly, the Yelp review is going to be pretty great.

Personally, I've been with guys who had large dicks who didn't know how to use them. They have a "big dick" attitude and seem to feel that once they've unzipped, their work has ended. As a result, some of the guys with big dicks have been the worst sexual experiences I've had. On the other hand, I'm pretty average and have made sure that nobody ever came away from an encounter with me unsatisfied. Maybe I couldn't make them scream in pain -- though even a small dick with no lube can feel like a telephone pole, so it's a matter of what sensations you're looking for. If I can't pound his prostate with my cock, then I go after it with my fingers. He comes explosively either way. :)

Just make an effort to be good, the rest will take care of itself.
 
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My best sexual experiences so far were with average guy when I bottom. And I often bottom so ‍♂️ I love a big cock to worship but some of them can't make a great use of it, sadly.
 
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I think you've been given some good advice so far. It's definitely enough to get a man off certainly, but if you do consider versatility within a relationship you will get a wider pool to fish from (but that's totally unrelated to penis size). My other advice is not every guy likes anal sex and it's even more important to get the other parts of your sexual repertoire on point.
 
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Of course size matters. It’s an aspect of your body that has an effect on how it’ll feel to get fucked by you.
Lately I’ve experienced guys who don’t like it when I go deep, which sucks, because I love it. Those guys obviously prefer other sizes than mine.

It matters.
Find someone you’ll matter to :)
 
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you are on this forum, so many of us are size kings or queens. I'm a very alpha guy, hairy chest, whisky drinking, gun shooting, powerlifting, type of guy. My turn on is a beta type guy with a bigger cock then mine that puts me in my place in bed.
 

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So i am bisexual, and i prefer being a top, but the thing that bothers me much is that my penis is just 4-4.5 inches long n i do get anxious about dating/sex. So i just wanted to know like is the size like okay/adequate.....
Your attitude, both in and out of bed, carries a lot of weight. More so than cock size. I don't mean arrogance. I mean confidence. Getting into their heads is a great way to get into their holes. A lot of very well hung guys are bottoms by nature, so don't be intimidated by cock size.
 

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I admit that I am a size queen. To me, there is nothing better than a guy with a thick cock over 8". I will do whatever it takes to score with that cock! I've had boyfriends, fuck buddies and friends with benefits that had those thick lengthy cocks. I've enjoyed them all, but in the end, my favorite guy to play with was my ex-boyfriend. His dick was very average. It was 6" in length and average thickness. But he was the first guy I've been with who loved to rim. He would rim my ass each time before he would fuck me. It was a very incredible experience. And he not only shot his loads far, but he shot the biggest loads. If he pulled out, he would shoot his load all over me. It was very hot!

All of that was not because he had a big dick, but because he knew how to use his dick very well.
 
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So i am bisexual, and i prefer being a top, but the thing that bothers me much is that my penis is just 4-4.5 inches long n i do get anxious about dating/sex. So i just wanted to know like is the size like okay/adequate.....
if it bothers you then its likely to bother your partners - not because of its size but because you're worried about it.

there are a lot of guys out there who like smaller dicks if they're the bottom guy - just as many who like giant oversized dicks, and at the end of the day, its about technique, stamina, reading the other guy and just enjoying and having fun.
 

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Probably echoing other guy's here, but I've been fucked by guys with cocks of various sizes, and it all comes down to how they use them - a smaller than average guy has had my prostate singing, whilst several longer than average guys have opened me up, digging so deep, they've had me seeing stars. Technique, technique, technique.
 
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Of course size matters. It’s an aspect of your body that has an effect on how it’ll feel to get fucked by you.
Lately I’ve experienced guys who don’t like it when I go deep, which sucks, because I love it. Those guys obviously prefer other sizes than mine.

It matters.
Find someone you’ll matter to :)
Of course size matters. It’s an aspect of your body that has an effect on how it’ll feel to get fucked by you.
Lately I’ve experienced guys who don’t like it when I go deep, which sucks, because I love it. Those guys obviously prefer other sizes than mine.

It matters.
Find someone you’ll matter to :)
You could go balls deep in me any day!
 

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size matters quite a bit to some people and not so much to others. As I've become more willing to openly acknowledge that I'm smaller than average in the last few years, I'm learning that a surprising number of guys actually prefer smaller ones. Like you, I prefer to top. Some hard-core bottoms won't be satisfied by either of us, but there are plenty of other guys (especially vers guys or inexperienced bottoms) that can't take bigger ones and we can fill that niche--literally and figuratively. When I do flip, I only do it for other small guys as I can't take big ones
 
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Not to me bc I love size, no one's opinion matters except who you're fucking
 
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A vast majority will say yes, but its really down to the individual on both side. im an average guy, and I like a super tight ass. and I find sometimes I meet with guys who have been well fucked, or a size queen, and therefor leaving me with almost no sensation. I never cum when a guy is too loose for my cock. totally unsatisfying. then theres guys who are not big but love a loose hole. some bottoms love to be stretched, then size matters, some guys just appreciate a willing working dick, then size does not matter.
Personally, size does not matter unless its a micro, because then I don't get any pleasure with it filling my mouth, but then im genetically restricted with a small mouth, so 8 and bigger is too big. I only suck, I don't bottom, even though I prefer smaller/average, but don't really care a lot about size, size matters to me for my performance.