does race play a factor in your dating?

[naughty]

Never been attracted to black men. In preschool I went for the white-blonde hair pale boy in class. First date was with a black guy but only because my mom liked him because he was the same religion (JW) as she was trying to raise us.

Not being funny but may I ask what you are?

 

[TheRob]

yes,I only date humans

 

[tasteslikejellyjam]

for me its not race necessarily but cultural...
but more importantly I like personality...
I prefer Asian, Native American, or South/Central American...

I tend not to like white people in general (and I'm white... Scandinavian even)
I don't like some black guys...
never dated one because I've yet to find one that is single & not annoying to listen to...
the only black guys I would date are my friends & unfortunately happily married to white women...

 

[BrownStallion]

to be honest the years of disapproval from my family have played a huge role in my early dating experiences. No, I am more open to other races as long as there is a cultural understanding from both sides. The last person i dated was latin and catholic. I am black and baptist. SO i think its a toss up of your own comfort and the acceptance of your family.

 

[earllogjam]

Do gay men still date? Oh you mean meeting again after the sex?

 

[dalynxx]

It depends...but I've only ever had black so far.

 

[naughty]

I find the differences are less racial than cultural, socioeconomic and religious not to mention that Men come from mars and Women come from Venus...:biggrin1:

 

[Principessa]

There are a few ethnicities which I try to avoid, not out of prejudice, but because I have dated someone from that background in the past with disastrous results. It is often the cultural as well as socioeconomic differences which lead a relationship to failure. :frown1:

will you or won't you date a man because of his race?
for any reason at all(family and friends won't accept it, just not attracted to that certain race,ect.)

I find that I am not attracted to most men from the continent of Asia, this includes Indians. It's not the color of their skin, I don't care about that. It's because most men from that part of the world tend to be short for my liking and slight of build. I like my men at least 6' and muscular to husky.

I tend to find Maori and Polynesian men very sexy. :naughty: Haven't had the pleasure of meeting any yet, though. :frown1:

No, race and colour play no part at all.[/QUOTE

] Says the white man with the hot, black girlfriend. :biggrin1: :wink:

 

[Guy-jin]

Not at all, what a silly question.


What?

 

[voidout]

Not at all, what a silly question.


What?

It's not silly at all. Most people, whether consciously or subconsciously, are attracted to people of similar race, cultural backgrounds, etc etc...

 

[invisibleman]

Do gay men still date? Oh! You mean meeting again after the sex?

SO DARK THE CON OF MAN. :biggrin1:

 

[Guy-jin]

It's not silly at all. Most people, whether consciously or subconsciously, are attracted to people of similar race, cultural backgrounds, etc etc...

Psst... I was being sarcastic. :tongue:

 

[voidout]

Psst... I was being sarcastic. :tongue:

There is no laughter on the internet.

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

Yes, it does play a factor in my dating.

how? is it a certain race you won't date because of family/friends or you just don't find a certain race of men attractive?

 

[Principessa]

It's not silly at all. Most people, whether consciously or subconsciously, are attracted to people of similar race, cultural backgrounds, etc etc...

True! Which is why I get a long so great with Italian men. :biggrin1:

how? is it a certain race you won't date because of family/friends or you just don't find a certain race of men attractive?

Well after recent events I think I will stick with men of the same socioeconomic background as me. Cause I got sick of defending his redneck ass to my friends.
:irked:

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

There are a few ethnicities which I try to avoid, not out of prejudice, but because I have dated someone from that background in the past with disastrous results. It is often the cultural as well as socioeconomic differences which lead a relationship to failure. :frown1:

I find that I am not attracted to most men from the continent of Asia, this includes Indians. It's not the color of their skin, I don't care about that. It's because most men from that part of the world tend to be short for my liking and slight of build. I like my men at least 6' and muscular to husky.

I tend to find Maori and Polynesian men very sexy. :naughty: Haven't had the pleasure of meeting any yet, though. :frown1:

No, race and colour play no part at all.[/QUOTE

] Says the white man with the hot, black girlfriend. :biggrin1: :wink:

i say the same thing as the "hot white man"
but it's usually the woman's family that HATE me. and when i say hate,i mean sometimes i've had fights with brothers and fathers,and even uncles on some dates i was on. wild shit indeed.

 

[TheLegend]

No, it does not play a factor in my dating. I love them all!

 

[earllogjam]

SO DARK THE CON OF MAN. :biggrin1:

Is this some obscure DaVinci Code reference? ...:redface:


I'm trying to think of some guys I know who have partners of a different ethnicity than themselves. Just some observations of mine and gross anecdotal generalizations...

Most gay Asians I know have an unattractive older white lover.

The white guys I know who only dig black guys tend to be very masculine, hung and muscular and they play around a lot.

The gay Latin guys I know have all sorts of partners from any which race.

The gay black guys I know don't talk to me about who they are screwing. I've never seen a black/asian gay couple though.

Most white guys have lovers who look like themselves, bears with bears, gym bunnies with gym bunnies, mustache with mustache, beard with beard, fat with fat, twinks with twinks...etc. I'm not sure if they started out looking like each other or slowly converged.

At the bathhouses I've been to in ethnically diverse cities most white guys tend to only to have sex with other white guys. Asians seem to prefer white guys and not other Asians- the Asians who are freshly here go almost excusively with other Asians, Black guys like other black guys and the occasional white guy who only gets off on Black guys, Latino guys have sex with all races it seems. Older guys like in their 60's and 70's tend to have a more ethincally diverse sexual palet.

 

[voidout]

how? is it a certain race you won't date because of family/friends or you just don't find a certain race of men attractive?

i find men of certain races unattractive. there are always exceptions.

i have been attracted to men of all races, yes, but generally speaking there are certain skin tones and traits among certain races that i am not attracted to physically.

 

[fizzyjizz]

What traits are they? Hope i dont have any of them

i find men of certain races unattractive. there are always exceptions.

i have been attracted to men of all races, yes, but generally speaking there are certain skin tones and traits among certain races that i am not attracted to physically.