Let me explain... Whether your married or just been together with someone for a while, does seeing his penis randomly, excite you: After a shower, Peeking out of his boxers, Flopping around while he changes, Seeing it resting while he sleeps....etc I ask, in that I think all penises are exciting, especialy when flaccid and just hanging loose. During these hot summer months I like to let mine out in the open as much as possible at home. Especially while sleeping. My wife could care less, in fact she often gets upset and says: "there it is again, put that thing away" ! I think it's beautiful and I'm very proud. I'd like to know: Is it a turn on or a turn off ??