find a woman you can dig, physically AND mentally. both of you let your hormones loose. you'll know because it seems like you can't get enough of each other, lots & lots of fucking, totally release yourself. my wife and I are older now, and the hormones don't rage like they did. but when we were younger before and after marriage, we would just fuck for hours. it didn't start that way, we fucked on the 2nd date, but didn't really know each other. the sex was real good even then. but after 2 months, we knew we were hooked on each other, it was common to go fuck for 6 hours.