does she admit or doesnt care??

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  1. shocked

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    hey guys I have a question for u.

    u are large but she doesnt admit or she thinks that u are not enough big.or she had bigger than u before.
    or dont care your size... what do u think about that? was that happened to u? is that demoralize u?
    For me being big for her is the biggest motivation for me in sex.

    please share your experiences... ( sorry for bad grammer if exist) thanx
     
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    Hmm....I am average and I haven't had anyone complain before....I did have one girlfriend tell me that her previous boyfriend was bigger than me but I was way better at oral than him and I was more adventurous in bed so I guess it all worked out....I am happy with my average size and I really get into the sex so I think that is what really turns the girls on that I have sex with....
     
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    Usually the issue is if you're good in bed or not. Unless your cock is tiny, you're probably ok. You look really hot so as long as you fuck reasonably well, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.

    Think about this...have you ever been fucking a girl and really, really wish that her pussy was tighter???
     
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    It used to be a hang-up of mine thinking I wasn't big enough regardless of what my previous partners said. Some even confessed that they had been with bigger guys. In hindsight though, there have only been two that said they were with bigger guys, and one didn't like it (too big).

    Now however, I know I am above the norm by about 2.5 inches (depending on which poll/survey/study/etc you look at) and it does give me that extra confidence. As Sorcerer said though, the real issue is how good in bed you are, and having 'extra' is an added benefit.
     
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    Yes. Had a g/f that when we first hooked up told me "wow your bigger than my ex" which made me happy. For the following 2 years it was hardly ever brought up again. If big dicks were ever mentioned (movies, books, talk) she would go "who cares" or "so". I would rarely ask her about my cock but if I did I would get shoulder shrugs and "I guess". After her all girls following gave me the praise I longed for :biggrin1:
     
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    Sounds to me like she must be a pretty shallow person to say to you that someone else has a bigger dick than you. I would thing she would first of all like to be with YOU and enjoy your company, not just whats in your pants. If she just wants a quick lay then shes just a slut and the same goes for men. There should be a relationship before there is sex. That will piss someone off but so be it.
     
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    From what I've read, plenty of other guys around here feel the same way, more or less. The question for you is will you be satisfied with a woman who's not as into dick size as you are?
     
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    Having seen your other post about this - you did ask the question about the size of her other boyfriends before you...but you said she more than happy with you.

    That is a loaded question and again, one better off never asked in the first place...

    I would like to think most reasonable women are more concerned about

    1. The relationship itself first and foremost

    2. Everything else that goes into sexual compatibility and what would be cosidered ideal for them.

    You are feeling demoralised because as you said in the other thread "impressing women with your size and performance is a big turn on". Penis size is important to you - but not to her (so it seems).

    If its praise you are looking for - then perhaps you should change the way you are approaching the subject of penis size in discussing it with her?
     
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    My girlfriend knows I'm bigger than most guys because the condoms I use say XL on them lol and are bigger than normal ones. I also had someone with XXL tagged on the end but they were too small...Anyway, I would like her to compliment me more but she is a quiet girl, and not very experienced (yet, although we have had sex about 20 times). She's only now getting into the sex ie grabbing my cock and shoving it inside her. She still checks the condom every 20 seconds though...I know I'm my current gf's biggest cos she's not been with anyone else. My ex when we were broke up did say she had a new boyfriend who was thicker than me...and I did feel a little sad for some reason. I guess I thought my dick would be the biggest she'd have for at least a while. Now though I don't care about her, or what she or anyone else thinks of my cock.But if only my gf would talk dirty to me hehe.
     
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    I'll talk dirty to you. Might not do much for you... but I would find it most enjoyable.
     
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    Dirt, filth, mud...

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    Yeah yeah... that offer goes for you too!
     
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    Work it! Work it! Tell me all about your dirty clothes hamper...

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    Ive had girls tell me how size dosent matter to them before knowing what i have, then after tell me how about how its big or the biggest or whatever. I think they just say it dosent matter just incase a guys small. then when they find out hes big they can drop the act and go back to normal...lol
     
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    100% true...IMO
     
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    Yeah I totally agree with you here....Because I have a friend who a girl he hooked up with said he was a great guy but his dick was very small....This guy hooks up a lot though like a different girl every night because of his great personality and he can charm the pants off of most girls....
     
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    My wife likes it, but me having a big dick isn't the sole factor in a great sex life!

    You need to take some pride in that you have a big dick, and that there are still better reasons than that to be with you.
     
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    Exactly, its great if a girl thinks your big and likes it, but I wouldent want that to have anything to do with her beeing with me, It should just be an added bonus so to speak.
     
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    My wife makes comments about my cock size. But how she says it is important. Does she say it with the side of her mouth? Does she say it and punctuate her words with her eyes and eyelashes? The word penis is a word that my wife uses to tell me how she feels. Other women might use the word happy. She uses the word penis. If she exaggerates the word that too has meaning. It took me a few months before I could decipher the difference. But now it's all part of the cat and mouse game. Who's the cat and who's the mouse is for you to decide.
     
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