Does size really just matter to men?

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Although I have had sexual experiences where the female enjoyed a bigger penis than she was used to, it wasn't like she was necessarily seeking that out (except if it were a swinging type situation). When I look at this website it is mostly men who comment on the videos or pictures including mine. Guys want to suck it, admire, worship, respect, and similar adjectives both gay and straight. I am not sure any women have commented but even a rare comment doesn't necessarily mean she wants to fuck it. Now, I am not saying there aren't a few women who it matters, but it would seemingly be a very small percentage.

I have had some female parlor massages that included the H.J. or oral and I would get some nice comments on my size, but not one just had any desire or need to put it inside them. I can think of some other situations as well where perhaps either it was somehow known about my big cock or observed did any one in reality feel the need to have it.

What I don't know in the above is that an obvious fact or is it that porn sites are simply the interest of men versus women. In other words, maybe because 95% of the people on this site are guys (and certainly a lot of gay men), it skews the perception that it simply doesn't matter to woman because they are not here to begin with. A site called "Large Penis" certainly has no mystery to it, but again I don't see a flood of women here.

Now, I know there is no way to determine if shared experiences are genuine or not, but in reality do any of you have experiences with women where it really was an important aspect to them or had any strong issues regarding the desire or need for the bigger sized penis? My saying it won't necessarily make it so, but please be honest (or give your thoughts).
 
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in my opinion, penis size is more of a guy-issue than most girls (if not the majority of them). i think it is within our nature as men to be competitive and a big dick is like our feathers on a peacock. also, porn doesn't help even though it's all fake. it's mostly in our heads.

i've met women who cared about dick size as their top 3 for dating men and i've met women who could care less about it at all. there is one caveat to dick size that seems to be the same across the board for all women and that is that a dick needs to be "big enough"... yes, big enough. what that "big enough" should be is based on a per-woman basis and is entirely hit and miss. some women will want 8 inches and some are genuinely happy with 5 or 4. it's whatever is "big enough" for each women. what this means, in general, is that size does matter. it's simply a question of what size does she need for her pleasure.

having a big dick is not all that. it is normal to yearn for what you don't have. if you are defined by how big or small your dick is then you need to seriously do some self-reflection and look at the bigger picture called life.
 
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As a generalization, based off of myself, the women I know in real life, and the women I know online (and who are interested in men)... Very few prioritize dick size. Some do, but it is way less significant to them, especially compared with how insanely obsessed some men are about dick size (their own and/or other men).
 

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I absolutely believe size is more important to men. It's true that men 'worship' a cock more than women. A guy can be perfectly happy playing with a dick, smelling it, kissing it, licking it, sucking on it.
Guys just love cock overall more than women (in my experience).
 
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I absolutely believe size is more important to men. It's true that men 'worship' a cock more than women. A guy can be perfectly happy playing with a dick, smelling it, kissing it, licking it, sucking on it.
Guys just love cock overall more than women (in my experience).

I play with, kiss, hold, and otherwise keep a part of me touching my partner's dick quite often. I don't obsess about size, though...
 

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i've met women who cared about dick size as their top 3 for dating men and i've met women who could care less about it at all. there is one caveat to dick size that seems to be the same across the board for all women and that is that a dick needs to be "big enough"...
I've been with a lot of women. Due to my looks, not my cock size; I'm hung like a chipmunk. My feeling is that most seemed to care some about size, but mainly in the sense described above: "that a dick needs to be 'big enough'". Frankly, some didn't feel I met the threshold in that respect but, luckily for me, most of them were okay with oral.

I can only recall a few who claimed to only be satisfied by the very big. Even self-proclaimed "size queens" probably only meant bigger than average and not too small. I can't speak for all women but, unless sex was the absolute pits, I think most only really cared about what kind of time they had with the guy.

I knew a guy who was hung like the proverbial horse. They lines stretched around the block. He constantly whined that chicks only wanted him for his big cock. That once they'd sampled the wares, they split. I felt like saying that since he had the looks of a drowned rat, the scrawny physique of Olive Oyl, and the personality of a doorstop, what else would they want him for? A big dick can only take you so far. In the long run I made out far better with my little cock.
 

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As a generalization, based off of myself, the women I know in real life, and the women I know online (and who are interested in men)... Very few prioritize dick size. Some do, but it is way less significant to them, especially compared with how insanely obsessed some men are about dick size (their own and/or other men).

How many consider it a good bonus? (obviously if the man has skill/can learn)


Since we all probably have things we’d be very happy to have but would sacrifice in order to have something we value more in a partner. Not meaning we wouldn’t greatly appreciate it but if you are looking for loyalty, kindness, similar interests, beliefs, financial practices, kids/no kids, etc. It’s easy to see how physical things could get pushed down despite being highly prized w/e it happened to be for said individual.

I have 1 female friend. That likes small ones. The only girl i’ve come to know that is like this. She likes small ones to the extent that some guys feel women must lose their mind over a big one. However that’s not in her top priority even if it would get her off like no other.
 
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How many consider it a good bonus? (obviously if the man has skill/can learn)

I think it is a whole two women. Even the self-proclaimed size queen I chat with on here prioritizes other stuff as more important than a larger than average or large dick. By contrast, I know more women who pretty strongly prefer average sized dick. The rest (including myself) do not at all prioritize genital size when seeking a casual partner, much less a romantic one.
 
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My fiancée is very much into size, and never hides the fact. Other girls I’ve been with, not so much. If anything I’d say they would prefer slightly smaller.
 

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I don't think I've known a woman who expressed as much interest in penis size as me, or most guys for that matter. Sex with a large penis has been a bit of a hurdle, actually. It has been difficult to have sex with some women, though, despite the expressed difficulty at least one kept coming back to me after having experiences with smaller guys (I was her first). I've only been with one woman who seemed to be excited about a larger than average size, and specifically how deep I could reach inside her. While some of the others expressed some pain, or at least difficulty, she seemed to enjoy the fact that I was able to get deeper than anyone else and made it clear to me by what she was saying. It was pretty cool at the time, and I certainly wouldn't mind having that kind of experience again, but I'm not sure how important it really was to her. It seemed like it was more about encouraging me.
 
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no but it has to do with 'worshipping' and those who worship dick tend to really enjoy big dicks.
When people such as yourself talk about "worshipping" cock, I'm sure it has nothing to do with the religious practices of the many populations around the world who habitually sacrifice male chickens to some deity or another. I think it also has nothing to do with the practices of people in certain regions (Japan, the Himalayas, the Urals, etc.) either at present or in historical times of consecrating and praying before idols or images of penises.

"Appreciating/valuing/respecting/admiring penis size and men whose penises are above the mean in size" would sound better to me.
 

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I can only tell what the majority of my female friends say: "Not too small and not too big"
They make fun of small ones but don't admire big ones.
 

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I think it is a whole two women. Even the self-proclaimed size queen I chat with on here prioritizes other stuff as more important than a larger than average or large dick. By contrast, I know more women who pretty strongly prefer average sized dick. The rest (including myself) do not at all prioritize genital size when seeking a casual partner, much less a romantic one.
Only two consider it a bonus/have preference? Would have thought preferences would have varied rather than more or less been the same, cuz well people lol.

Though like I already said. It’s pretty easy for physical things to get pushed down, so it’s not surprising at least in the terms of priorities it’s a low tier trait across the board.