Does size really matter?

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  1. james123

    james123 New Member

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    So my question, im 5" around in girth when im hard, that falls about average, does size really matter in relation to sex or is it how you use it, which is more important? cause if size really does matter then im not exactly the thickest out there. your opinions please.
     
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    Size queens will tell you different, but I'm around 5"-5.5" thick and I've had girls have trouble taking me in at first. I've pleased them just fine.
     
  3. B_spiker067

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    There is a ton of free, pro-am porn out there.

    From a sampling it is obvious that size matters to almost all women.

    When you consider the inside measure of a forearm of an average guy is 10" and that a fist of an average guy from knuckle to knuckle is around 3.5" you begin to be able to grasp the measure of the member in hand. (An average inside forearm for a woman is about 8" and a fist is like 3").

    Based on this (and other insights) and visual cues given by women it seems that most women get off best on a penis that is 6.5" to 7.5" in length and 5.5" to 6.25" in girth. For most, anything bigger seems to be a fucking chore (pun intended). Especially for the pro's since they see the larger ones. But for that matter anything really small is also a fucking chore. Dude just read their faces.

    On this board two sexually active gay guys have stated that the studies of what is average penis size is right on and from viewing both porn classes (pro-am) and medically minded penis picture galleries I agree.

    The capacity for some women to take large sized objects is amazing. Some vagina's will require a forced entry of a fat head but once in it is seemless. Big girth is taken easier than big length. Most women do seem to ecstatically bottom out at 6.5-7.25". They can take deeper but then you have the fucking chore syndrome.

    Given a choice between two dicks a woman will concentrate on the bigger one orally while jacking the smaller one. When taking two simultaneously from the tag team they like the smaller orally and the larger vaginally.

    Girth is the most important for stimulating a woman and length is most important for the mechanics of sex (i.e. not getting dropped on long strokes and actually getting it in without having to lead with forward pelvis thrust walk - hahaha - that's funny to watch).

    SIZE MATTERS. TO REITERATE MOST WOMEN SEEM TO REALLY, REALLY LIKE SOMETHING 6.5 - 7.5 INCHES LONG AND 5.5 - 6.25 INCHES AROUND FAT.

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    P.S. Girth makes a dick look like a cock.
     
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    I'm about this size in girth, and yeah, have had some girls that had trouble taking me. 5" is over average by a slight bit - you'll be just fine.
     
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    @ james123...

    If you're here asking this question, then... hmn... yeah, size matters....

    to you.

    Confidence in the bedroom is the biggest turnon.

    A lack of confidence is the biggest turn off.
     
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    It could metter... too big can be uncomfortable, too small probably cause less pleasure, but it depands on lots of things...
    but if you be with the right person it never mind...!!!!

    Most of men got between the two value..
    Bigger one should spend lot of time with the worming up, and streching patiently and it can be good too.
    Smaller one can use toys, or fingers, or tongue, and anithing else what can a girl enjoy, and it could be such good.


    In our relationship (threesome) my gilrfriend got a bigger lover. She feels differnt way but not couse more pleasure.

    With bigger she got usually vaginal orgams, and she can repeat it more times, end she enjoy the feeling be full, and fuck for 1-1,5 ours, but usually not better for her, just enjoy it too!

    With me(smaller) she got usually clitoral orgasm, and we fuck between 20-40 minutes and she got a very intensive orgasm, and she have to rest after it. (but sometimes vaginal too but i only have to "work" harder with the right technic)

    So both of us can satisfy her really only different way.

    We think size problem probably in mens mind...
     
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    5 around is above average, so don't worry.
     
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    Size matters, except to those people it doesn't matter to.

    We don't have sex with everyone at once; generally, it's one (maybe two, maybe a small group on occasion) at a time. So THAT'S who our focus should be on ... the person we might be about to have sex with, not the entire population.
     
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    i think 5 around is fine, i think most women love big but not huge
     
  10. avg_joe

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    Heck yeah. Size matters. If you have a big penis, the news will spread like a wild fire among your friends. And people would be curious about your size.
     
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    I'm 6.5 by 5.75 and my girlfriend says it is a perfect size. Now the clincher! she just told me the other night that she has had thicker and they produce better vaginal orgasms. I know I'm not big by anymeans but it sure hurts the ego when women talk like that
     
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    Same thing for me, except im 4.25" around! She's yet to experience truly big cock (anything with girth above 5.25) & I know the day the orgasms I gave her will fall a short second...
     
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    the biggest sex organ is your brain. the ones only interested in how big you are, are not ones you won't want to hook up with in the long run. that all being said, I am glad I was blessed with a fairly large cock, 7.25 x 6.25. and also the brains to separate the wheat from the chaff. I had sex with gals who loved my size and gals who didn't like it because it is too big. my wife said she was in love with me before we ever had sex, and my size large or small had nothing to do with it. she is glad I am hung, because she has never wondered "what if".
     
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    Yes to me size does matter. I have had small four inches cocks, average 6 to7 inch cock. The most pleasure for me was a 13 inch cock. He went deeper and shot a heavier load. Big, long, girthy cock are for me.
     
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    On balance I think it's safe to say that the average straight woman does not care/worry/obsess about penis size nearly as much as the average straight man, who may be insecure about how he fits into the pecker pecking order. I base this observation partly on the fact that there are relatively few women here on LPSG -- if they really cared deeply about penis size, there'd be a lot more of them here, right??

    Sure, there are female size queens out there, but as far as I can tell this is a fairly small sliver of the population. Broad surveys of women have tended to indicate that most are perfectly happy with a partner who is average to slightly above average.

    Steve
     
  16. D_76froy

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    Size matters only in that you need to be big enough to stimulate a woman's vagina, and I'm guessing average length and thickness will usually do the trick. Even though I'm considered to be "hung" with a 9" x 6-1/4" cock, I've had many women tell me that my cunnilingus skills were what gave them the most satisfaction. I personally love to eat pussy because it turns me on to have a woman experience multiple orgasms while my tongue and mouth are between her legs. Furthermore, it makes fucking so much better when a woman is soaking wet, and relaxed from cumming before I penetrate her pussy with my cock. They almost always cum again (often more than once) while I'm fucking them.

    Just my opinion.

    -Ranger
     
  17. D_Rawkesbye Deadheade

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    All I can say is it matters to me, otherwise I wouldn't be here. I guess I could say the same for you. :smile:
     
  18. crazyaz

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    not one girl answered lol
     
  19. crossy

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    Unless the male is enormous visually I really don't think a vast majority of the girls notice or can feel the difference with the vast majority of males with a say average 7x5
     
  20. Mr_Cumalot

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    I think the average is more 6 x 5. Thats the only way i can explain girls see me as visually big.
     
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