this must be an old discussion, but lets be honest, does size really matter? In my own opinion, I don't think it does. If you are a str8 or bi and you have sex regularly, all you need to know is that the vagina is 2.5 - 3.5" long when its not aroused (some studies have scaled this to variation in race), and stretches to whatever size of cock is inserted in when aroused. My point is, even the smallest cock can satisfy a woman. So guys, size don't really matter (unless u have a 1" cock, in that case, u are screwed mate!). If you are gay, I can't say if it does or not, if it gets in your bum without it hurting, that's fine, and if it does, ouch! sorry. much of everything that plays with our perception to sex should be blamed on the media. Porn sites and sex videos make us think that size is all that matters....for some, yes, for others, no. Have you watched any porn where this huge cock is tryna get into a pussy? the dude always supports his cock with his hand or she does it for him, and most times she winces in pain and he isn't even in yet. Should sex be enjoyed or not? Reality sucks, but its true. what we all have to understand is, even the smallest dick would get an orgasm, and that's what counts. So if u got a 100" cock....good for u, chances are, u won't get ur whole cock into that place of pleasure completely, and if you are 4", u should be fine. if u r 1", sorry mate, u r screwed. lol! just joking, but u really are, hahahahaha..... Enjoy your PENIS (big or small) all u need is an orgasm.