Does Someone Feels The Same?

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Hey guys,

I consider myself bi, but sometimes I have doubts about it.

Let me explain.

At the beginning I only date women, after my first time with a guy, I start dating (almost exclusively) men.

I can tell if I find a woman pretty or not but find myself feels more physically attracted to guys.

As the days move on, I find myself asking those questions:

1. Am I really bi or am I changing forward to being gay?

2. Should I marry a woman or a man? On one hand, marrying a woman is much "easier" and widely excepted and I know I've been dating women before and enjoyed it. On the other hand, in bed, sex with a guy just feel more powerful and exciting.

Did any of you ever had this questions too? What did you do?
 
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This is kind of a tricky one.

I would consider you bisexual still. Maybe your percentage has shifted, which I have heard is a possibility. I suppose if you feel absolutely no sexual feelings whatsoever towards women, that would shift you towards being homosexual. Ultimately the label doesn't really matter; you like what you like.

I denied I was bisexual to myself until I was 21 and then I still didn't date or pick up men. Fear of my family finding out was the reason.

I have asked myself the second question. Women aren't attracted to me at all so if I were 21 again, I'd be looking for a guy to marry. I'm too ugly for women but some men accept me so the choice would be easy in my case.
 

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Hey guys,

I consider myself bi, but sometimes I have doubts about it.

Let me explain.

At the beginning I only date women, after my first time with a guy, I start dating (almost exclusively) men.

I can tell if I find a woman pretty or not but find myself feels more physically attracted to guys.

As the days move on, I find myself asking those questions:

1. Am I really bi or am I changing forward to being gay?

2. Should I marry a woman or a man? On one hand, marrying a woman is much "easier" and widely excepted and I know I've been dating women before and enjoyed it. On the other hand, in bed, sex with a guy just feel more powerful and exciting.

Did any of you ever had this questions too? What did you do?
Three questions:

1) how old are you?

2) how long has it been since your first sexual experience with another person?

3) when you masturbate, what do you usually fantasize about?

I’m technically bi, even though I consider myself gay (as does the world). While I am still attracted to women I never act on it anymore; it’s more trouble than its worth, plus I’m attracted to guys way more. When I was in my teens I was 50/50 in my sexual attraction to males/females, though I only had sex with females and didn’t even kiss a guy until I was 23 (!) But once I grew into my twenties, my attractions shifted, now I’m closer to 90/10 in favor of guys. Who knows - it might change again throughout my life lol. I don’t care. As long as you’re not lonely and you have good friends and/or loving family, you’ve already won at life.