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all this time i thought i was popular....just turns out...i'm a slut. sigh...
a HOT slut!
all this time i thought i was popular....just turns out...i'm a slut. sigh...
That's a colorful analogy; but it's totally inappropriate for this topic. :duh:
Sorry but gay is a synonym for homosexual. They are the exact same thing. I suppose you could say that a bisexual person has an interest in gay sex.
:rofl: That's funny, I love when people just pull things out of a hat and expect us to believe them. :tongue:
I think what is being got at here is taht being gay is more than who one has sex with.
We teach and use the sexual trichotomy of attraction vs behaviour vs identity.
It allows us to accomodate more than the straight (bad word) classifications.
Someone can identitify as straight (identity) and have sex with men (behaviour) and be attracted to women in the main.
OR any combination possible.
I would suggest why does it matter as long as it is consensual and all pariteis enjoy it - enjoy it.
I may have sex involving a woman once a year but it doesnt make straight or bi. I am a fag!
That's not necessarily true. Labels are necessary. The tricky part is to let your orientation and actions determine your label, not the other way around.No, it doesn't. I would say bi, but you can't live your life by labels. They will always limit your options. Live life without boundaries to the greatest extent possible. You will always be happier to make up for what you did than for what you denied yourself.
My thoughts exactly!It sure as hell doesn't make you straight.
hmmmm.
And im not making that sound with a cock in my mouth.
Or at least live your life honestly.DC Deep
I totally agree with you. I would never call myself Bi or Straight as I have never had any interest in a woman sexually - though I have previously dated, and love them as friends.
I was only meaning to say that if he is asking for a label (Am I gay if...), he might be afraid of the responses he gets. I would say, live your life outside of boxes as much as you can. You will get enough of that from other people. Just be honest about who and where you are (in life), and enjoy the ride (no pun intended) as much as you can.
Does sucking cock make you gay?
No, it makes you a cocksucker.
Can you give me some information about the official handbook where you found this factual definition?Gay is NOT homosexual! Gay is a whole culture, homosexuality is a set of behaviors with members of the same sex.
Is a swishy, effete, garish yet fashionable man a homo? Maybe, is he Gay, VERY
It sure as hell doesn't make you straight.
Well said!I got married hoping it would make me straight. I had sex with my wife, but it never made me straight, and it never made me bi. I was always gay and I still am. In the end, I just had to deal with it.
I'll be that was a deep journey. I'm glad you made it through.
Sucking dick does not make you gay, it makes you commit a gay act. If you are emotionally attracted to guys, you are gay. If you are emotionally attracted to women then you are straight. Who you have sex with does not change your orientation.
Well said!I got married hoping it would make me straight. I had sex with my wife, but it never made me straight, and it never made me bi. I was always gay and I still am. In the end, I just had to deal with it.
I'll bet that was a deep journey. I'm glad you made it through.
Sucking dick does not make you gay, it makes you commit a gay act. If you are emotionally attracted to guys, you are gay. If you are emotionally attracted to women then you are straight. Who you have sex with does not change your orientation.