Are there any married people out there that have not experienced such a drastic change in sexual activity with their spouses? What's the secret to keeping it going? I would imagine a lot of communication at the very least!?
I'm not married yet, but I plan that if/when I ever do get married...maintaining a strong sexual bond will be a top priority. I know life/work/family gets in the way, but I am curious to know how sex falls by the wayside.
When I was engaged, my ex and I had a couple of dry spells in the last year of our relationship where we would go maybe 3-4 weeks without sex at a time, though I gave him plenty of blow jobs/hand jobs to tide him over. I had gotten so sick of him that I didn't want him to touch me, open communication was OVER and I just didn't feel close to him anymore. Sex was the very last thing I wanted with him because I didn't feel safe anymore.
Anyway...jesus, i feel for those of you who are able to go without sex for so long.
I'm not married yet, but I plan that if/when I ever do get married...maintaining a strong sexual bond will be a top priority. I know life/work/family gets in the way, but I am curious to know how sex falls by the wayside.
When I was engaged, my ex and I had a couple of dry spells in the last year of our relationship where we would go maybe 3-4 weeks without sex at a time, though I gave him plenty of blow jobs/hand jobs to tide him over. I had gotten so sick of him that I didn't want him to touch me, open communication was OVER and I just didn't feel close to him anymore. Sex was the very last thing I wanted with him because I didn't feel safe anymore.
Anyway...jesus, i feel for those of you who are able to go without sex for so long.