does this give you a hard on?

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I got 75% wood. If I had of seen her pussy, I'd probably be in some pretty bad pain from a raging hard on
 
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I felt some life in the old fellah there for a minute.
 
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Nope but then again I'm as about as str8 as a rainbow
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it's actually not pasted on. it's from a full set. it just seemed like the best pic out of the bunch, imo. I'm just finding that either my sex drive is dwindling, or pictures of people aren't doing it for me anymore. curious how many others were or weren't able to get a hard on from a photo.
 

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it's actually not pasted on. it's from a full set. it just seemed like the best pic out of the bunch, imo. I'm just finding that either my sex drive is dwindling, or pictures of people aren't doing it for me anymore. curious how many others were or weren't able to get a hard on from a photo.

These articles could explain what's happening to you, if you used to be turned on by photos like these and now they no longer get you hard.

“How I Recovered from Porn-related Erectile Dysfunction” | Psychology Today

Protect Your Appetite for Pleasure | Psychology Today

Losing at Porn Roulette | Psychology Today

If you don't want to read all the research and evidence and conclusions, here's the short version:

You have exposed yourself to too much porn and now you require more stimulation to get as aroused as you used to get. Take a long break from porn for a few months and you will recover and return to your previous normal, healthy arousal levels, and that will make you happier. If you don't, then you might turn into a porn addict who requires the freakiest stuff to get your penis erect and you might end up with a very unsatisfying sex life and very unhappy.
 
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yea, I've been thinking that might have been it. aside from having no social life in high school and a couple other detail, my story sounds similar to the guy in the first link. similar enough to think this might be the problem. for instance, my ex (lady I lost my virginity to a few years ago), the sex between us was never a problem. after a bad break up, I didn't find people attractive (at all) for about 3 months. and the first woman I've had sex with since, I was having some problems keeping it up. it got hard, but went away before either of us could finish. it sucks to say, but I'm a healthy 22 year old male, not over weight, not out of shape, no medical problems, no drug or alcohol problems to worry about, not on any illegal drugs, and I've gotten over my ex...I have been looking at porn a good bit, so this very well could be it. I've thought about deleting my stash on my comp, and going cold turkey multiple times. I think it might be time.
 

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yea, I've been thinking that might have been it. aside from having no social life in high school and a couple other detail, my story sounds similar to the guy in the first link. similar enough to think this might be the problem. for instance, my ex (lady I lost my virginity to a few years ago), the sex between us was never a problem. after a bad break up, I didn't find people attractive (at all) for about 3 months. and the first woman I've had sex with since, I was having some problems keeping it up. it got hard, but went away before either of us could finish. it sucks to say, but I'm a healthy 22 year old male, not over weight, not out of shape, no medical problems, no drug or alcohol problems to worry about, not on any illegal drugs, and I've gotten over my ex...I have been looking at porn a good bit, so this very well could be it. I've thought about deleting my stash on my comp, and going cold turkey multiple times. I think it might be time.

That sounds like a good idea. :smile:

I love porn, too, but I never want to love those vicarious experiences so much that it interferes with my ability to enjoy real sex with the man that I love or dampen any of my real experiences. I think you're making the right choice.
 
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I might argue my gay card is bigger than yours... she gave me %25 semi, not much, but ya... I like balls. I was able to get 25% because of realizing that she is pretty damn hot, and will most likely have some hot guys stabbing their rods into her, and then imagining their asses thrusting above her... I'm one of those people who over think things, obviously, so knowing that she has her own taste in men I cant make the picture clear enough to get the job done. But... ya...

Not even remotely.
Guess this means I get to keep my gay card...