Does this make me a slut????

Am I.....


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Hotmilf You are not a slut . You are a very cool girl.:wink::wink::wink: Besides I don't like that label slut . It was invented to spread that doble standard that guys can sleep with a lots of girls but girls shouldn't do that . The people that use that term are bunch of hypocrites . Don't worry about the opinion of that kind of people.:smile::smile::smile::smile:
 

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"-- One guy ONCE - he popped my cherry when I was passed out drunk and barely 15 years old (I woke up to the ouch, and for that moment of pain, I almost got banished to live with Texan relatives that I had never even met)

-- One guy ONCE that banged me (again passed out drunk) in a parking lot (I woke up to the ouch). I was out drinking because a scumbag fiance had just dumped me."


no, but im pretty sure it makes you a rape victim, did you do anything about those 2 guys?
 

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Sorry hun, but I think you should be more of a slut! You cannot use the word unless you have experienced it!!haha

I was asking my younger friends about this and I got blank looks. The answer to the slut question seems to be that someone else is the slut! There is no such thiong as a proper slut anymore. Slags maybe but not sluts. We are too liberated nowadays to be sluts!

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Nope not a slut at all. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex! Slut is such a high school term anyways. I think that its more then ok if women can say they like sex and have lots of it.
 

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Goodness NO
Youre not a slut.
You are a tall, thin, long legged redhead with big cans......Just my type!
But not a slut.

So what part of L.A. are you in exactly?
Im over behind the Orange Curtain.....

Really though 10 men in total is not a lot! Not at our age.
 

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What's the difference between a ho and a slut?

The ho sleeps with everybody. The slut sleeps with everybody but you.

I find the term slut is usually applied out of jealousy and anger.

Thoughts?

I agree. Slut is a pejorative term, regardless of its exact definition. So in my view, when Hotmilf asks "Am I a slut?" what she is really asking is whether she has (or should have) a positive view of her sexual identity, or a negative one. Which IMHO is not a question that can be answered by a poll.

Hotmilf, no matter how many pages this thread runs, I expect you're going to have to decide that one for yourself. :biggrin1:

Cheers,
-DC
 

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I'd say you are still in that virgin territory... if you were a gay man. :smile:

I chose none of the above.

BTW -I would cut off the nuts off anyone who took advantage of me while passed out drunk.
 

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I could be mistaken, but I think some people who voted in that poll chose what they are. I think Hotmilf wanted to know what people thought she was. I could be wrong. :confused:
 

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hotmilf, why bother with this thread. You're a beautiful woman who may have made mistakes (counting the two ouches, but nothing to hold against you). I've made mistakes too. So do what you do and don't worry about it as long as you're happy with your decisions.
 

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I could be mistaken, but I think some people who voted in that poll chose what they are. I think Hotmilf wanted to know what people thought she was. I could be wrong. :confused:

to your response , i picked none of the above for hotmilf. really are there any persons such as a slut. ppl like to have sex, shoot there''s so many guys i'd bang on here, but if i met them in real life that might be too much work for my lil' mama.:biggrin1:
 

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No. You are a beautiful woman. The truth is the only persons opinion you should care about is your own.

If you think or feel like you are a slut then you probably need to seek counseling because this probably means you have a problem with low self esteem that you need to overcome. And it is probably brought on by your religious upbringing. I can relate. I was brainwashed that we are only supposed to be with one person for our whole lifetime. Well, that just isn't real life. It isn't how it always works out even if that is what we are aiming for.

My first time was date rape at the age of 21.....(frat guy and yes I told everyone and reported it ......and I got a public apology)
But after that first time....I don't know what happened to me.....I guess I was angry and bound and determined that no stupid jerk was going to ruin my sex life for me. So, I was a little on the promiscuous side. And looking for love in all the wrong places. I had sex with about 10 guys in 2 years. Safe sex I might add. I was on the pill, they used condoms and I had to have their medical histories.

Safe sex is very important. Unfortunately I had a female college roommate that contracted AIDS and she dropped out of school and nobody ever heard from her again. I suspect that she isn't with us anymore. I remember her telling me that she was 19 years old and she had been with over 100 guys and she didn't use condoms. And she was always having one night stands with guys she didn't even know their names......and then all worried she was going to get pregnant. It was just a matter of time before she was going to hook up with the wrong person and get pregnant or a serious life threatening disease.

So, do I think you are a slut? Heck no.

Do I think I am a slut? No

I will admit that when I was in college rooming with this 19 year old girl who had been with over 100 guys......in my mind I considered her a slut. I thought she was a beautiful girl and a nice person.....but in my mind....when I saw her list of all the guys she had slept with....it overwelmed my simple little mind.......and I labeled her a slut.
She also was always trying to put the moves on my boyfriends so that also helped make the name stick in my mind.
 

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Here's my favorite definition of the term slut.

From urbandictionary.com:

1.sluta woman with the morals of a man


So you see my dear...according to this it's all equal. LOL

Seriousy, clearly telling your personal sex history here for all to see makes me think you are a normal woman in a committed relationship who looks out for her kids.

That hardly makes you a slut, honey.:smile:
 

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I looked at this thread and the original post and to be honest, I couldn't draw a conclusion, I would rather get my facts right first, then to make judgements and possilby predijuce against anyone.


If it makes you feel better, I am nearly 22 and I have never had sex in my entire life and I think this is down to my 2 main reasons:
A) Just not that lucky with the opposite sex (Single for 4 and a half years, problably answers a lot).
B) waiting for misus right to come along

The fact you had sex atleast twice by the time you were my age, means you did a lot better than I currently am now!

(Although, loosing your virginity is equal in both cases, if you lost it already, its equal to those that have not lost it).
 

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None of the above or else "An idiot for posting this thread."
I know everyone thinks I'm a slut...
Why would you say that?

The only questionable things you did were getting drunk to the point of passing out with a guy. Maybe you were just young. Who the heck gave you alcohol at age 15?
There are other men who have watched me and my s/o, and/or I've blown them (I do like a nice dick).
...and this. You didn't give many details about how many guys you've blown. If it is you getting drunk, picking up random guys and blowing them often, then that's kind of slutty. If it was just a few men that you knew pretty well, then that's not so bad. I'm not one of the people that thinks blowjobs are not sex, so really it's more that 10 men you had sex with.

* Don't take what I say too seriously since I'm a total prude.