The bf and I were having a pretty heated discussion, and wanted some other people's opinion. So say you're a teenager, around 16. You're pretty much average and consider yourself to be straight. You've had girlfriends and have gone pretty far, maybe even had sex. You know you want to grow up and live with a woman and have babies with her. But, you start having ideas. You like to watch straight and gay porn. Maybe guy's bulges turn you on? You start getting ideas about men, and you're really interested in dicks and gay shit. Basically we were arguing over this basic question: If a male teen was going through puberty and has gay thoughts, and gets turned on by both guys and gals, but knows he wants to spend his life with a woman, does this mean he's gay?