I was specifically speaking about those bisexuals who are both physically and emotionally attracted to men and women but choose to have LTR with women.
Also, I tend to see people who are only emotionally attracted to someone of the opposite gender but are physically attracted to both genders, as heterosexuals who enjoy the tactile pleasure of having sex with one's own gender. If a man likes the feel of a dick in his ass but doesn't feel the desire to have a relationship with another man I just don't see them as homosexual or even bisexual. The labels in general are stupid.
Well we don't pick who we fall in love with that's for sure.
Why should a bisexual who is attracted to both genders romantically go with men?
Would it help you accept their sexuality more? Would it help you to ignore the fact that they're into women sexually and romantically? Would it somehow help you personally validate their sexuality more because they are with a man and not a woman?
I have no qualms if someone is equally attracted to men and women and then winds up being in a relationship with a woman or decides that they do want a wife and kids as it is their life.
That's a rather silly and biphobic viewpoint to have about men who are bisexual yet are more sexually/romantically attracted to women and just have sex but not romance with men. Again I see nothing wrong with being like this.
Men like that are not heterosexual or straight at all even if you think that they are, or even if they claim that they are when they have at least a sexual attraction to both men and women.
That's just the closet speaking from their viewpoint and your viewpoint about them.
Someone's sexuality is more than just who they fall in love with. What about sexual attraction, sexual fantasies, or countless other factors?
Surely if in your viewpoint there are these "straight" men that somehow want and have sex with men, can transcend or stretch labels and get fucked in the ass by a man and not be bisexual or gay, why can't you yourself as a "gay" man enjoy the tactile pleasures of your penis, tongue, toys, or fingers/hand inside a woman's vagina, as well as enjoying sex with men?
I do agree how the sexual orientation labels are pointless, political, social constructs, and rather outdated which is why I don't use the sexual orientation percent on this site to describe myself since I don't fit into it.
ItalianShowOff-Look into open relationships.
They do happen and I know of men who are married to women and have kids and they have an open relationship where the wife knows that they have sex/relations with men and is OK with it.
There are also relationships where a man is married to a man and he's allowed to have sex/relations women and with men beside his husband.
None of these relationships are cheating since they are consensually open and agreed upon as such by the people who are in them.